Aggressive game VS Non chalent game - which do you prefer?

[spiegel549]

Been gaming A LOT out in bars, Tinder etc. pushing real hard.

Traveled back east to visit family and took a week off to reflect on my game.

I have my boys that play the non chalent card and do well. Then I have my boys and myself who play the aggressive game and seems to be a 50/50. Some it works great, some it scares them away.

What works best for you guys? I am trying to find the median of the two but can't seem to do that without pulling out my natural aggressive game.

Example of aggressive game working:

Tinder girl is wishy washy about getting together, I bust out the ****y funny aggressive dik lines and all of sudden she wants to get together.

Example of aggressive game NOT working

Went on a first date with a girl, was really feeling strong vibes, high kino etc I pushed for her to come up, pushed some more, she sorta got uncomfortable. We still talk and gonna hang out this weekend but the non chalent game would of been better for this one.

Whats your personal game style of play?

 

[Poop1337]

You don't know the nonchalant game would have been better. She still talks to you so she probably respects you for trying. You met this girl once do you think nonchalant game would have got her back up? I'm confused.

As for Tinder aggressive is the default way you should go but if you feel laid back will get you more switch to that mode for that specific girl. Don't let Tinder and other online dating be a buffer that stops you from gaming in real life. The bars, clubs, and especially especially the streets and day game are where you will really hone your skills. Skills that will come in handy even on an online first meeting date.

Finally when you say nonchalant you seem to mean laid back. Truly you can be nonchalant while at the same time escalating and inviting them to see your art collection or what ever. It just means appearing casually calm and relaxed not displaying anxiety. You should be always playing it nonchalant if you go off this definition. Well I mean show some enthusiasm while you're enjoying them in bed hahah

 

[old_skoolr]

From 18-23 I was easily aggressive, now I'm more nonchalent. There's more important things in life then women atm and I'm trying to focus on that.

The example of aggressive not working might've been her and not you. So I wouldnt play much into that, if your still meeting up with her. Watever works best for you, is the style you use.