"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Age differences

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When she's obviously younger than you, do you not bring up your age?
If she asks, do you change and divert to another topic?
Do you own it?

I usually say I made a deal with a leprechaun and I never age cuz I refused to take his gold.

But I'm talking to an 18 HB who I haven't done anything with...and I could fall in love with her face cuz its like a classy sexy face, but when she smiles it melts my heart.
Its just so right to see her smile.
P.s.
I look young and sexy. Blame my parents. So I can tell I got her interested, but she will eventually ask cuz they always ask about my age.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Konada

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"Old enough to date, young enough to flirt with girls your age'
 

RangerMIke

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Nevermind age for a moment, you are starting to lose your frame over this girl. You need to back off and go out with other women. You are going to completely turn her off if you don't.

Okay, back to age. I'm in my late 40s, and I dated women this over the past couple of years as young as 24. No woman has every asked me my age in at least 5 years, and I'll tell you why. If a woman is interested in you, she will do a Google search and find out your age on-line without ANY difficulty. Chances are she knows your age already. Most younger who are interested in older men ARE NOT really interested in anything long term. You are likely just that "hot older guy" she's going to fvck and tell her friends about. Then, if you play it right, she'll be a nice FB.

If you are at a club, which I do not do anymore, and a woman asks you your age, it's a sh!t test. She wants to see if you are going to come unglued... and all the things you might say are all wrong. You just say "Old enough to be your father so don't do anything that might make me put you over my knee.". Don't lie, don't make excuses.... Don't be defensive. Own it, joke about it. And if she likes you you'll do fine. If age is a problem for her she likely wouldn't be talking to you.

Just keep in mind older man/younger women relationships are hardly ever long term, so keep that in mind.
 

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I'll be 46 next month. The other day a gorgeous 18 year old waitress tried to steal my attention away from a gorgeous 20 year old waitress and described me to a third 18 year old waitress as someone they love. So men are always younger than we think when it comes to younger women. It occurred to me that for 30 straight years I've had the affection of at least one 18 year old beauty. And since I was 19 girls my age hated it.

A given girl will tell you when you're too old. Don't let these old ladies tell you that you are victimizing her. As if MEN choose!
 

Building_and_Loan

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Even if she says "whoa you're old" doesn't mean anything. There was a girl who said that a few years ago to me who was 23 (I was only 29) that I ended up banging repeatedly for a few weeks and she fell for me hard. Heck I'm 31 now and a pretty hot girl who just turned 22 is all over me.

Most girls really don't care about your age, in fact, I'd bet most girls get with an older guy (more than 10 years) at least once in their life.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When she's obviously younger than you, do you not bring up your age?
If she asks, do you change and divert to another topic?
Do you own it?

I usually say I made a deal with a leprechaun and I never age cuz I refused to take his gold.

But I'm talking to an 18 HB who I haven't done anything with...and I could fall in love with her face cuz its like a classy sexy face, but when she smiles it melts my heart.
Its just so right to see her smile.
P.s.
I look young and sexy. Blame my parents. So I can tell I got her interested, but she will eventually ask cuz they always ask about my age.
Just throw some money at her and have sex with her. As long as she is legal you can do what you want.

Obviously you are not going to marry her and have a long lasting relationship with her based on trust, love, and mutual respect. So if you are attracted and she is too, sleep with her. What good is she if you don't sleep with her?
 

Aesthetix29

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I've just started seeing a girl of 21 and I'm 31 is that weird ?
 
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