"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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After High School

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So I just graduated this Saturday from high school! Gonna start working and stuff but I was wondering if I can still get scholarships. Simply put, I was dumb and didn't take any opportunities. For now its community college but with a scholarship that could get bumped to a four year.

Edit: New question also, on community college. How good is it from a social life point? Most people I know are going to four years or the military.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EA Gold

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I did the exact same thing you did, by not going for any scholarships and going directly to community college.

The best tip I have looking back is to do what you really really want to do in life and go for that, and not what's convenient career wise. You will save yourself lots of time.

Also, don't do anything half hearted and if you are you're probably not in the right place.
 
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