"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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After getting the number

FearlessEngineer

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Hello DJs,

I've been improving my game a lot lately, since I was scared to death to approach a women two months ago.

I've had moderate success in approaching and asking for phone numbers but I seem to lack something important, when it comes to call and set up the first date and getting second dates. Sometimes, girls would stop texting me out of the blue, or doesn't even answer the phone etc...

I don't know if some of you had the same problems when starting, because I don't seem to figure it out.

Thanks

FE
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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RangerMIke

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This happens.

Truth is that women will give you their number without any intention of talking to you or making a date.

They do this because it's easier than telling you 'no' to your face, they will give you thier number and never answer the phone.

This is what happens when they have low interest in you. The best thing to do is to just toss the number and not contact her again and focus on women who are interested in you.
 
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