"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Afc_recovering Workout Journal

afc_recovering

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 26, 2005
Messages
110
Reaction score
2
Location
Canada
Alright so the inevitable has finally happened and I've plateaud. My lifts have stalled, my weight has also stalled. So now I'm enlisting the help of some professional advice.

So my stats right now:

Height: 5'8,
Weight: 160 lbs
Body Fat: 11%

As for the bodyfat, I find that a little off as my abs are by far my most noticeable muscle group and I constantly get compliments about them.

Day 1:
Deadlift 4 x 5
Wide-grip Pull-ups 3 x max
Chin-ups 2 x max
Seated rows* 2 x 8

Day 2:
Squats 2x5 (5 rep max weight), then 1x20 (2/3 of that)
Calf-Raises* 2 x 10 (lp machine)
Ab-work* (no real routine)
Shrugs 2 x 10

Day 3:
Flat DB Press 3 x 8
Dips 2 x 30+ (need a weight belt or something)
Flyes* 2 x 10
Skullcrushers 1 x 10 (usually tri's are 3/4 dead by now)

*'s are done on machines
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Warboss Alex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 7, 2005
Messages
4,113
Reaction score
29
don't take this in a bad way.. but you're 160lbs, you haven't plateau'd.

'plateaus' are just big words made by people who want you to think their latest supplement is going to 'break the plateau' or whatever. people throw the world about because it sounds scientific but in essence it's anything but that. yes, I agree that progress is not linear but when you do hit a wall, often all that needs to be done is the switching of a rep range or an exercise or more food in the diet (most common).

however, the routine looks okay (maybe more accessory work if bodybuilding is your goal), good luck with the journal, now post your diet.
 

afc_recovering

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 26, 2005
Messages
110
Reaction score
2
Location
Canada
Biceps: 38cm(l) 39cm(r)
Neck: 41cm
Chest: 99cm
Waist: 73cm
Forearms: 30(l) 31(r)
Thigh: 54.5cm(l) 55cm(r)
Calf: 42cm(l) 40.5cm(r) (weird)

I think I'm a fairly easy muscle gainer, as my lifting numbers aren't anywhere near where it should be for my weight. (Or else that's how it seems looking around at this site seeing guys smaller then me lifting like twice as much)

Bench: 170 (1RM), Squat: 210 x 5, Dead: 205 (1RM)

Yeah so really nothing to write home about, and I never use my 1RM's in my routines. Maybe that's a problem maybe not. I always use DB's instead of bench so that could explain the pitiful numbers. My DB is 60lbs. for 8 reps.
 

afc_recovering

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 26, 2005
Messages
110
Reaction score
2
Location
Canada
I change my diet up alot but here's what I ate yesterday, probably nowhere near what I needed.

Meal 1: 7:00 AM
4 eggs, a PB bagel, bowl of Vector cereal.

Meal 2: 10:15 AM
Protein shake.

Meal 3: 12:15 PM
Subway.. footlong Ch. Bacon Ranch sub.

Meal 4: 3:45
Pasta with sauce.

Meal 5: 6:00
Steak with baked potatoes.

Meal 6: 9:00
Protein shake, cup of peanuts.
 

donjuanjovi

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 21, 2006
Messages
480
Reaction score
1
Location
Toronto
EAT.......... In my opinion pizza is the best plateau buster. It's not the healthiest thing out there, but calories are a plenty. I had a large pizza and garlic bread when I went to dinner on friday. Menu said it served 3-4. :cheer:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

EFFORT

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2003
Messages
2,115
Reaction score
45
Location
USA
Your diet def needs work and your training is better than what most guys are doing but it can still be a lot better too. Sort of a lot to type here though, if u want help send me a pm.
 
Top