"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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pyros

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So there is this HB5.5 that seems to like me. I've bumped into her many times in different clubs. She always want to dance with me, and talk to me, eventhough I do not seem very happy to do it.

One time she took me to some dark corner in a club, but I had to make an excuse because I could feel she wanted to do something to me so I excused myself.

Some other day she asked me if I was dating some girl she saw me dancing with a few times...stalker.

Today, she wanted to dance with me again. I was sweating a lot because it was so damn hot so I said that she should not get that close because I was sweating. Her reply...?

her: "I dont mind to get some of your sweat. This way I can have something from you"

See? this is a perfect afc behaviour followed by a perfect afc comment...if my attraction was low, not it is vanished from Earth.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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zekko

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She's expressing her interest, I don't see anything wrong with this behavior. I wouldn't find it a turnoff at all, in fact I would admire her good taste. Here's the main point: The things that make a man attractive or unattractive are not the same things that make a woman attractive or unattractive.

The only thing that would bug me about it is if she was an attention wh0re (in other words she's treating every other guy the same way). Which, if she really is an 8.5, is probably the case.
 
pyros

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she's an HB5.5, not an HB8.5!

this is why it annoys me LOL. She doesn't wanna see that Im not interested, but she keeps persisting...as if I was gonna change my mind out of the blue...
 
TheMonkeyKing

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OP,

If you rate her at 5.5, does her behaviour really surprise you, the same as any other afc? In my experience, this kind of thing can escalate to very clingy and very annoying, very quickly if you show even the slightest interest beyond friendly.

Move on and don't have anything to do with her. She's potentially depleting your own value.
 
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