"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jamal

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Ive been thinking of stories to come up with (I believe its good to have at least some stories to keep the convo going) and I notice that girls like listening to fun entertaining stories and one of the events in my life that i can think of is when i went to the haunted mansion with my cuzin and some other girls and hangin with some other girls is my only DHV spike. the rest of the story describes what happend in the haunted mansion. Jus want to know if this is a good idea or i have to think of something ele?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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gray_fox_9

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I wouldn't worry too much on the content of your stories as long as they are interesting and funny. Just make sure you aren't boring them and you're golden! :up:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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What about humorous commentary about what's happening in the news or just general observations. I had a woman in stitches about Brussels sprouts just last night. Use your imagination, there's tons of things all around that can be interesting and humorous.
 

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wait, girls don't like boring stories?
 
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