Advices for tonight

[Ambition Now]

Hi everybody, i've recently posted about a coworker who ive dated about two weeks ago, today we are going to meet on a party and she is being all day sending me msgs saying that she wants to take a shower and sleep with me today, i mean, as i ve posted before, i dont really feel much attraction to her and ive always worried about dating / fuc**ng coworkes...
Any advices?
Thank you

 

[KontrollerX]

How much do you need this job?

How important is it to you??

If its your livelyhood do not fvck this chick.

If its just a job at Mcdonalds or something like that bone the fvck out of her.

 

[Ambition Now]

No, I dont work at McDonalds, its a company that ive been working for 4 years now, and the first time ive dated her, she told everybody that ive kissed her...
I am really worried that she will tell other coworkers that ive f**ked her...
But how do i turn her off? She is almost saying in my face that she want to f*** with me...
Dont know what to do!

 

[KontrollerX]

Well either pounding her guts in or rejecting her advances could lead to eventual bad feelings which will lets face it be expressed in a very public way by her and as a result of that you both but more likely you will be getting fired over all this.

There are a few possible ways you may keep that from happening however...

Option 1: Bone the fvck out of her and really beat that pvssy up for as long as her interest in you lasts. Best case scenario she eventually gets bored of you and drops the revelation she wants to start fvcking other people, you say cool and life goes on.

Option 2: You don't want to be tied to one pvssy for an unestimable amount of time so you play hardball and start collecting evidence and getting tape recordings of her practically throwing herself at you. Have dates, have times, have witnesses that will vouch for your side of things being true and all that and try and get her fired for sexual harrassment or just keep all of your evidence around incase she tries to get you fired for this when and if things turn bad no matter what you decide to do ie whether you decide to bone her or abstain from that.

Option 3: Just go as no contact with her as you possibly can, avoid her as much as you can, end conversations quickly with legitimate sounding excuses, be boring whenever you have to talk to her for extended periods of time, just send all the vibes and body language that you can muster that you are not interested in her. If she has a decent amount of marbles rolling around upstairs she'll likely get the hint and leave you alone but if she is vindictive and entitled as most modern women are you can expect her to raise hell over your denial of servicing her so before you even begin the policy of no contact you should start collecting evidence of her throwing herself at you for use in your defense later on.

Now all I can tell you is that if my job and my livelyhood were at stake I would go for option 2 and document evidence and try to get her fired before she can do the same to me.

Most guys however won't go for the jugular first like I and most modern women will so they make things harder on themselves which is why I think you will select option 3.

Good luck with that buddy.

You're gonna need it. :rock:

 

[oakraiderz2]

If youre not attracted to her why are you even worrying about anything?

 

[Bluesteak]

Once again Kontrollerx puts it in perspective!

 

[Ambition Now]

Alright, here is what happened:
Ive decided to really feel how things were going, dont escalate too fast and stay really cool.
After the party i took her to a bar and started drinking, we were kissing each other and she seemed like she really wanted to take it to sex...
I started scalating and tried to touch her breasts, but not in a pervert way, but in a smooth way, she slaped my hand and said that i should have more respect for her (the way she did it, it did not seemed to be anti sl*t defense, she made it like she was angry and after that a weird silence came up).
Few minutes later we were kissing each other again and we decided to go home, in the car we started making out again but before we even start something she said again that we should stay cool. After a little kissing she started to bite my neck, but i was a little worried and I said to her that i should drive her home because i was drunk...
I drove her home and now i am here posting the feedback to you guys...
I mean, im not worried about the coworker stuff, since things didnt got any hotter than this, and in the company i work i know about a lot of cases about coworkers f-ing each other, but i dont want everybody in the company to know that we are dating, so ive decided that i wont date her anymore...
So, what do you guys think?
Thank you!

 

[oakraiderz2]

i dont really feel much attraction to her and ive always worried about dating / fuc**ng coworkes...
Any advices?
Thank you

Im STILL wondering how youre not attracted towards her yet you ended up making out with her?

 

[KontrollerX]

"So, what do you guys think?"

I think you knew what you were ultimately going to do before making this topic but just asked for our opinions to see if we could influence you in any way that may help out in the future should you get yourself into a jam.

Also I think despite what you have said in your last post I think with about 100% certainty you are going to end up fvcking her and it won't be just a one time deal either.

And I think this will end up biting you in the ass as it will probably turn ugly eventually and you'll end up getting fired after much drama and of course then you'll be regretting that you didn't get out there and find a girl unconnected with your job to bone like most sane people who want to keep their jobs do.

You selected the path of least resistance, thought with the little head, not the big head and fvcked yourself over rather than doing things the right way by seperating your business life from your personal life.

So yeah this is what I think lies in your future and I'm not even a fortune teller.

1. Loss of your job that pays the bills.
2. Lots of unnecessary drama you could of totally avoided by going after a girl whose not a work related person.
3. A bright red mark on your forhead due to slapping yourself in the head repeatedly for not listening to us when we told you fvcking her or continuing with her in any way would be a bad idea.

And with that three cheers for your future success!

:yes: :yes: :yes:

 

[DJDamage]

but i dont want everybody in the company to know that we are dating, so ive decided that i wont date her anymore...
So, what do you guys think?
Thank you!

Too late.

What are you doing trying to escalate things with this girl if you don't want anything to do with her?! the wheels are in motion right now as we speak. This girl sounds like a big mouth to me and she will probably going to tell one coworker and that coworker will tell another and so on and so on.... by next week everyone will know.

You'v dug yourself a pretty deep hole now. If you try to avoid her or tell her that you don't want to go out with her, she is going to tell everyone what a jerk you are and pit some coworkers against you.

Not a smart move.

 

[Ambition Now]

Yes people, i know i was a dumb last night, but like ive said before, in my work place this happens a lot, I have a friend who dated and f-ed this same girl in another company, i asked today why he stop going out with her, he said that he did it because she told everyone in the company.
But its no big deal, seriously, im not worried about losing my job since in my job they dont even care if you re dating coworkers, i am just glad that i didnt f-ed her since i dont want things to go on.
If she tells everyone that we kissed, i can deny, there were no witnesses, so its ok to me.
I think i was weak in a sense that everybody was saying for me to f*** her since i was not seeing another girl by now, I was kind of thinking with other peoples mind, i know, HUGE mistake.
But guys, i will not date her anymore and I definetly will not F*** her.
Thanks for your advices! You guys knows stuff! Thank you again!

 

[jacob]

I say use her as practice. You don't have to have sex with her just learn how to "hang" with a female. If you already didn't blow it with the groping incident you can still redeem yourself. If you say she's into you it's because I think you were being a challenge by not having the urge to eff her like the typical guy.

Do as Kontrollerx suggests by being boring and sometimes disinterested but don't push her away since she's huge potential for you to land someone else. She'll be telling all her hot coworker friends about you, the way you kiss her, make her laugh, get mad at her, make her buy you stuff etc. and you'll gain huge points and attract their interest too.

You can do this by just being yourself now since you say your interest level in her isn't very high and this is a "jerk" quality. Treat her like a little sister and good friend but also practice your seduction on her by using eye contact, kino, ****y+funny, and disagreeing. This way you learn and gain experience being comfortable with a female and it's a plus since you're no longer pressured into "getting" into her panties.

It's the same in boxing. If you try and look for a knock out punch it won't come but if you just stick and move and throw your combos the knock out will come all by itself.

If you play your cards right not only will you get a raise and promotion along with the other hot coworker babes, but she'll be so into you and frustrated cause of an urgent need to connect physically and spiritually with you through sex, and since she can't "get" you, she'll probably kill you and eat you and keep your head in an ice box for later adoration.