"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've hung out with the chick and we've effed already and spent some time toghether but really never went out on what I consider a "date" we've just met up for drinks and stuff like that. Well her bday is next week and I'm taking her out for her bday. Soooo

I was thinking theres this cool indoor go kart track thats close and a nice sports bar across the street....so karting, pool and beers and then later some mad "love" haha. I jsut usually don't go out on night dates, so just wondering what you guys think!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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