"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I am known for writing alot and not being organized. so i will make this short and to the point.
i get to know this woman, her body language is all open and receptive, but then she tells me that she has a boyfriend and that things are getting serious.
even after telling me that she continues with her openness with body language.

so should i keep working on her?
or next?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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aussiegoat55

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1. She's lying to you. Next her.

-or-

2. She's truthful. Don't try to break them up. So move on.
 

sexybeast

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this is the classic "dont listen to what she says listen to watch she does" I.E her open B/L.... Game on 100% mate.

your are not going out with her boyfreind, she is.... its her choice to cheat on him or not...
 

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Rings don't plug holes bro...

IF you legitimately think you have a chance, game over. If not, don't worry about her, move on.

My guess, she's just a really nice, outgoing girl who is comfortable with herself, and has a flirtatious nature.

She may or may not be lying to you, you'll have to work on her a bit and find out for yourself.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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