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Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Advice please. How to deal with religious virgin who "I think" is attracted to me.

Poonani Maker

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This week, I've crossed paths twice with a quiet cute, 8 years my younger, virgin religious chick. I was working so, of course, I'm pumped, and on the ball, so she's experiencing me at my peak physically and manly-wise. I can tell that she really is surprised or eXcited when she sees me. She's happy to see me. I've got her Attraction to me at it's pinnacle. Will probably see her tomorrow or Friday. What would you recommend I do from here? I'm looking to move, so my **** at home's not together which has put my life on hold. I don't want her to come to my place.

I've GOT to make a move while the iron is HOT! She's hot for me, I can tell, but she's sweet "nice" and Religious also, which makes my seduction of her a little tricky. I've played it cool. Not showing her direct interest, just smiling and a look like "I could eat you up." I'm thinking about asking her "Are you training to be a nun??" next time I see her. She doesn't date, to my knowledge, but she wants the "Right" guy, I think, to be a "mom."
 

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PM, from your previous posts it appears as though you can get most women, so why not leave this one alone. If she is religious and not looking to put out, if she does buckle and give in, she is gonna feel like crap afterwards. She may even go in to a phase of self loathing. Obviously its your call, but she could get really hurt and may turn in to one of those men hating women that dies single and alone.
 
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Poonani Maker said:
This week, I've crossed paths twice with a quiet cute, 8 years my younger, virgin religious chick. I was working so, of course, I'm pumped, and on the ball, so she's experiencing me at my peak physically and manly-wise. I can tell that she really is surprised or eXcited when she sees me. She's happy to see me. I've got her Attraction to me at it's pinnacle. Will probably see her tomorrow or Friday. What would you recommend I do from here? I'm looking to move, so my **** at home's not together which has put my life on hold. I don't want her to come to my place.

I've GOT to make a move while the iron is HOT! She's hot for me, I can tell, but she's sweet "nice" and Religious also, which makes my seduction of her a little tricky. I've played it cool. Not showing her direct interest, just smiling and a look like "I could eat you up." I'm thinking about asking her "Are you training to be a nun??" next time I see her. She doesn't date, to my knowledge, but she wants the "Right" guy, I think, to be a "mom."


Mr. Poon,

To put it bluntly. You don't have a "prayer" with this one. Praise be!
 

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Well, we had a brief encounter yesterday. It's been almost 6 months. At first she looked unhappy that I was there, but by the end of our convo, she was happy that I'd showed up. We were Face to Face. I think she wanted to kiss me, or undress me, whatever. She's definitely aged since when I first met her 3-4 years ago when she was 24 fresh out of college. Now her titz are droopier and her face not as model-like beautiful (flush, alive) as it was once before. I still thinks she don't date, And I think she thinks she's too good for almost all men, while at the same time, she's got a few confidence or "insecurity" problems. She may be getting desperate in a few months. She may be already desperate. She watches TV more than I do, so maybe she's succumbed to feminist TV programming, idk.
 
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