ksantoro93
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Hey guys need some advice on a situation with a friend. I've known her for a year and a half or so and around the beginning of October at a surprise party for my birthday she told me that she would "**** my brains out and rock my world" and that "we go good together" I'm a pretty big guy I'm 6'1 265 and she's kinda way out of my league she's absolutely stunning and I've had a thing for her the last few months but I always kind of repressed it because I was under the impression we were friends.
About a week or so after the party in one of my night classes that I happen to have with her friend, she asked me why is Sue acting so weird? And I asked her what she meant by that and she began to ramble off on story after story about how she hooked up with some kid she was supposedly just friends with and she occasionally still sees her ex boyfriend and goes over his house and ****. So I was angry, not at the fact she was doing all that stuff because that's her own life not my concern but I thought I was being dragged into a game so I sent her a pretty nasty text saying stuff along the lines of I'm not a toy you can play with when You get bored and I don't know why you're playing games but I think we should stop talking to each other for a while and that I didn't wanna be a part of the Sue fan club she occasionally ****s when she's bored. She texted me back saying she meant everything she said and that she doesn't have a fan club and that her ex boyfriend is nuts so she stopped really talking to him and that she wound up telling the kid she hooked up with that they have to be friends. She then called me before I answered her back and pleaded her case with me and asked me to meet her the next day to talk.
So that next day she came over and I confronted her on why she told me what she did and she said her intention was to see where it went and see if I felt the same way, and then I brought up that when I asked her to either talk about it or forget it happened she responded saying we should forget it. She claimed she said it because she thought it was messing with my head. She then admitted to me that she cried when she got off the phone with me the night before and then she started to cry when we were discussing everything. She told me she wanted us to be okay and that we should see how this goes and I agreed.
So I wouldn't say we're officially involved with each other but she does occasionally hang out with me and me and her have decent conversations thru text and she snap chats me a lot and some of the pictures she's sent me have been pretty revealing. But my dilemma is she's like a thermometer one day we'll talk a lot and the conversation will flow all day until one of us falls asleep and then it picks back up in the morning again and then other days she just abruptly stops answering me. She says I never ask her to hang out which isn't really true, and when we're alone she'll flirt with me she'll lay on me and make jokes but with her friends she's different. for example they're trying to convince me to go to a concert and I said why would I go for music I don't like and her response was you can meet hot *****es there Not to say she doesn't flirt a tad bit around others like she'll play fight with me and jump on my back and say stuff like let me ride you. She really confuses me some days and other days everything feels great between us. I just need some advice from someone other than a friend who just wants me to get laid.
About a week or so after the party in one of my night classes that I happen to have with her friend, she asked me why is Sue acting so weird? And I asked her what she meant by that and she began to ramble off on story after story about how she hooked up with some kid she was supposedly just friends with and she occasionally still sees her ex boyfriend and goes over his house and ****. So I was angry, not at the fact she was doing all that stuff because that's her own life not my concern but I thought I was being dragged into a game so I sent her a pretty nasty text saying stuff along the lines of I'm not a toy you can play with when You get bored and I don't know why you're playing games but I think we should stop talking to each other for a while and that I didn't wanna be a part of the Sue fan club she occasionally ****s when she's bored. She texted me back saying she meant everything she said and that she doesn't have a fan club and that her ex boyfriend is nuts so she stopped really talking to him and that she wound up telling the kid she hooked up with that they have to be friends. She then called me before I answered her back and pleaded her case with me and asked me to meet her the next day to talk.
So that next day she came over and I confronted her on why she told me what she did and she said her intention was to see where it went and see if I felt the same way, and then I brought up that when I asked her to either talk about it or forget it happened she responded saying we should forget it. She claimed she said it because she thought it was messing with my head. She then admitted to me that she cried when she got off the phone with me the night before and then she started to cry when we were discussing everything. She told me she wanted us to be okay and that we should see how this goes and I agreed.
So I wouldn't say we're officially involved with each other but she does occasionally hang out with me and me and her have decent conversations thru text and she snap chats me a lot and some of the pictures she's sent me have been pretty revealing. But my dilemma is she's like a thermometer one day we'll talk a lot and the conversation will flow all day until one of us falls asleep and then it picks back up in the morning again and then other days she just abruptly stops answering me. She says I never ask her to hang out which isn't really true, and when we're alone she'll flirt with me she'll lay on me and make jokes but with her friends she's different. for example they're trying to convince me to go to a concert and I said why would I go for music I don't like and her response was you can meet hot *****es there Not to say she doesn't flirt a tad bit around others like she'll play fight with me and jump on my back and say stuff like let me ride you. She really confuses me some days and other days everything feels great between us. I just need some advice from someone other than a friend who just wants me to get laid.
