ok, so things have been going well my social proof has gone up massively i now have a gf, im improving all the time, but over the past couple of days i seem to of hit a brick wall, ive not eaten properly, barely been to the gym and not done anything of note, has anyone else hit a point like this or does anyone have any advice to help me get through this rut? thanks in advance
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
advice.... not an AFC btw
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