advice needed

[plasticcup]

hey all..
im in australia.. and was wondering if you could help me with this situation.. i am a beginner and if i do come across as an afc, please forgive me..
went to a petrol station after my weekly sport and saw a young lady on the checkout.. saw her checking me out and looking at me while serving at other customers.. and the same thing happened the next week.. and with my face full of white suncream, i felt quite sh*t so i let it go.. now this chick is quite cute and i need to get her number without being like a afc that i am..
as that place is not in my regular travel range, do i just post a note to her (i saw her name tag) where she works with my number and let her know who i was.. thats it.. what do you think?
thanks

 

[SpazzAttackk]

hey all..
im in australia.. and was wondering if you could help me with this situation.. i am a beginner and if i do come across as an afc, please forgive me..
went to a petrol station after my weekly sport and saw a young lady on the checkout.. saw her checking me out and looking at me while serving at other customers.. and the same thing happened the next week.. and with my face full of white suncream, i felt quite sh*t so i let it go.. now this chick is quite cute and i need to get her number without being like a afc that i am..
as that place is not in my regular travel range, do i just post a note to her (i saw her name tag) where she works with my number and let her know who i was.. thats it.. what do you think?
thanks

Im no DJ yet but do not do not do not pass her a note. She will smell the AFC and lose all attraction. If I were in that situation (Im usually pretty aggressive) I would go to the checkout, do the transaction on whatever youre buying and just before I leave id say 'Im NAME btw' and proceed to ask her for her number. Dont give her yours unless you get hers. Once you get it, leave and dont contact her for about 2 days. Dont stand there and make small talk. Your goal is the number. Thats all you want at this point

My text would be something like

Hey its NAME from the other day. (At this point you wanna set something up with her, be very direct and straight forward. Again, avoiding any small talk via text)

She says yes. You go out with her.
She says no, move on.
She offers a raincheck, youre busy. Propose another time when you think shes not working. If she was really interested she will agree. Youre a busy man, and that makes her wet.


That would be my idea of basic game. And if you get rejected, next time youre at the checkout act like you dont even know her. You may just get a text in the near future.

Whatever you do, dont chase. When introducing yourself be confident even if youre nervous as fvck. Be smooth when leaving Let me know how it goes

 

[plasticcup]

Thanks SpazzAttackk... i know thats what i should be doing..
i tried going there again today.. and tried to joke a little bit with her.. but you know.. there are ppl in the queue, and if i hang around, i look like a creep or something.. and also she will be quite embarassed if i try to pick her up in front of everyone.. is there any other way to let her know i wanna know her better?? i can only go there on a sunday as other days im working etc..