advice needed with new lady in life

Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

TillTheEndOfTime

Master Don Juan

Jun 5, 2013

JoeMarron said:
I don't know why dudes keep giving new posters advice when it's clear they don't know what the hell they're doing. OP don't even bother asking for advice at this stage. Read the DJBible, learn the rules of the game first or you're just gonna end up asking questions about every little situation that comes up in your dating life.

Sometimes the DJ bible makes a lot more sense when you get a real life example of putting it in action.

It is not a bad idea to get advice on a situation first and then read. It will make it that much more enlightening instead of just theory.

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.