davelmn2003
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I'm back home for the summer for 2 months and I e-mail this girl I was interested in (but never made a move on) in college (I'm in grad school now and she's working). FYI, she is a HB, blonde, kind of short, but with a pretty face and nice body; I'd say around 8.5.
Within an hour after I sent her an e-mail she e-mailed back. I said we should meet up sometime and she said yes. We hadn't communicated for over a year (after we both graduated). She used to tell other people how nice I was, but I also know that she had/has? a boyfriend. She also at one point said in passing said that I was too good for her (academically speaking--umm...does that mean that she had considered me as a BF material?). She's actually very intelligent herself. We always have interesting and intelligent conversations.
Anyway. She gave me her work and home phone numbers in the e-mail. I phoned her (after I got her e-mail for about 2 hours) at her work place. I know I should have waited, but when my parents are home I don't feel as comfortable so I make the call (they're home most of the time).
We had a great conversation on the phone, and then we agreed that we should meet up next weekend. She said next weekend evening would be good (this weekend her parents are going elsewhere and she has things to attend to).
What do you DJ's think of this situation? My old AFC thinking tells me that she thinks I'm just a very good friend who is male and who happens to be in town; so meeting up is natural and means nothing more. When I was in college, I was interested in her, but being an AFC I just didn't act on it; plus, she had a boyfriend.
Now, I'm thinking: she's available on a weekend evening...doesn't she have better things to do (spending time with a bf [IF she has one] on a weekend evening, especially when she's working now?) Also, the tenative plan is that I'll go to a metro station at her area, one block from her new place. Man, I'm just thinking about the possibilities IF I don't screw up.
comments, suggestions, advice highly appreciated!!! DJ's please help in my hour of need. I have one week to prepare.
Within an hour after I sent her an e-mail she e-mailed back. I said we should meet up sometime and she said yes. We hadn't communicated for over a year (after we both graduated). She used to tell other people how nice I was, but I also know that she had/has? a boyfriend. She also at one point said in passing said that I was too good for her (academically speaking--umm...does that mean that she had considered me as a BF material?). She's actually very intelligent herself. We always have interesting and intelligent conversations.
Anyway. She gave me her work and home phone numbers in the e-mail. I phoned her (after I got her e-mail for about 2 hours) at her work place. I know I should have waited, but when my parents are home I don't feel as comfortable so I make the call (they're home most of the time).
We had a great conversation on the phone, and then we agreed that we should meet up next weekend. She said next weekend evening would be good (this weekend her parents are going elsewhere and she has things to attend to).
What do you DJ's think of this situation? My old AFC thinking tells me that she thinks I'm just a very good friend who is male and who happens to be in town; so meeting up is natural and means nothing more. When I was in college, I was interested in her, but being an AFC I just didn't act on it; plus, she had a boyfriend.
Now, I'm thinking: she's available on a weekend evening...doesn't she have better things to do (spending time with a bf [IF she has one] on a weekend evening, especially when she's working now?) Also, the tenative plan is that I'll go to a metro station at her area, one block from her new place. Man, I'm just thinking about the possibilities IF I don't screw up.
comments, suggestions, advice highly appreciated!!! DJ's please help in my hour of need. I have one week to prepare.