Advice needed- got girls number

[zorg198]

Hello,

Yesterday i went to my friends event , he had his son birth celebrated.
i noticed this girl and i asked him if he know's her and so on he told me yes , she is the niece of my wife... asked him what's her deal and he told me she's taken.

few hours later his wife calls me , she told me she heard from her husband i asked about her niece , i told her yeah but just wanted to know what's the status , she looks good and so on and also we had some good eye contact and smiled ( don't ask me why i didn't approach by myself , stupid!|) , well she told me her husband has a wrong data on her , she's not taken she's single and she wanted to know if i am interested, i told her well yeah why not?

she told me she's 24 years old and yada yada yada, she gave me her number and till now i didn't call.

problems:

1. she lives 23 miles each direction
2. she's from my wife's friend

what do you think guys?

 

[zorg198]

Anyone?

 

[roman81]

Call and set up a date!

 

[roman81]

Call and set up a date!

 

[zorg198]

Hello All,

Well i called this girl after a couple of days , she didn't picked up the phone , 10 mins later i couldn't answer... called her after half an hour she answered and she told me she's busy and call me back , said alright.

after couple of hours she sends me a whats app text saying she's still at school and she will end it very late so we should talk tomorrow , said OK.

day after i didn't called , it was wensday , on Thursday i called she didn't answer. Friday same thing . today around 12:00 she called me but i was tired so i didn't heard it.

called her after 8 hours ( i was very busy having fun) she didnt answer.


wtf? should i close the door on this girl?

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Call her Tuesday-Thursday, Set up a date and boom.

Don't call her on the weekend. Let her get her weekend diva high in from partying etc.

 

[zorg198]

i did call on Tuesday-Thursday but she didnt answered the phone..

 

[zorg198]

Its like freaking cat and mouse chase...

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Listen brother, No girl is ever that busy! The last girl I fooled with has 2 jobs is going to school and lives 2 hours from my apartment. She still blows up my phone weekly asking me when I am free so she can drive down and visit me. There is no cat and mouse chase. She just isn't that interested in you.

Your problem is you never lead her. You got the number from her aunt. This girl barely knows you. What you should have done was go up to her chop it up and then get the number. Then some comfort would have been built up and she would be more interested.

Listen texting will not do anything to better this situation. You need to talk to her on the phone and build that rapport. Call her 1x Tuesday-Thursday. If she doesn't call back then charge her. If she texts you, however, tell her to call you later on that same day.

 

[zorg198]

To tell the truth i want even interested in her , i just saw her and asked my friend about her and that's it. she is the one who asked to give her number to me. i will do as you said, will call on Tuesday, if she's answer then good, if not - NEXT!