OP needs in-person, real-life dating coaching to get past his issues, not OLD suggestions or advice on the forum. He needs someone (a friend who is successful with women or a reputable hired-coach) to provide in-person style advice, to see and hear him interact with women in real-life, and provide feedback to him on how to improve his game based on their observations, and OP needs to actually listen to and take the advice instead of infinitely repeating his tag line about how his height, body, not drinking, not smoking, education, and career ambitions should entitle him to a GF.
I understand it is frustrating to be in his situation and I genuinely feel for him. I've tried offering plenty of advice to his many posts (as have others), literally zero of which has been implemented. At this point, the questions, complaints, and advice are simply being repeated infinitely without progress, change, or acceptance. It is clear what is needed to make actual progress, if that is what he wants, and he must be willing to take action instead of taking a victim stance and just looking for an outlet to complain or seek sympathy repeatedly.
The cycle is:
OP: I need help
SS: Do X and Y
OP: No. That won't work and I shouldn't have to do that anyway. I am tall, have a good body, don't drink, don't smoke, have a degree, am a good guy, that should be good enough for women.
*Repeat*
OP: It is 100% up to you and you have total control over your success or failure based on the actions you choose to take and the mindset you choose to have. 95% of us were not born successful with women. We didn't get to where we are by complaining, seeking sympathy, and refusing advice or change.
I'm sorry for your struggles and frustration but the choice is yours.