"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Advice needed:Date with girl with BF

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Javelin44

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I have a date with this girl who has a bf. I don't think she is aware that I know this fact. She is also quite flirty and has canceled on me once before. One thing I have noticed about her is that she is shy and insecure if you can push her buttons, so I'll try doing that. This is my second and last chance I'm giving her if she decides to flake. Do you guys have any tips on how I should act to her and things to watch out for? We are going to a pool hall and possibly dinner after depending on if pool goes well or not.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She's got a boyfriend? Call her on it. I would say something like 'so, what's your man up to tonight', while you're playing pool. Make sure you're nonchalant when you bring it up.

Two things will happen.

#1. This will mess up any defense she tries to throw up at you.
#2. It will put you in control of the date, you'll have the power.

Besides that, just lean back and have a good time. Be friendly, fun and flirteaous. The rest will fall into place...
 
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Bring some kind of weapon. Ole boy might just show up outta nowhere ready to whale on ya if you're not careful.
 
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pack a shotgun!

oh give me three steps give me three steps mister give me three steps towards the door...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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