krasnyiLion
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I know, this probably has been discussed here somewhere, sometime, by some great old DJ of the past but, if you are new and you need a guide. or a checklist here it is.
before a date you need to have the following:
confidence building articles. these can be
1- your best clothes
2- your best watch
3- recent hair cut
4- (you shaved your balls recently).............heheheh whatever makes you feel good
the point is that you are happy how you look, and to you, you look good.
it never hurts to look at yourself in the mirror and say to yourself "look hot"
"you are the greatest" "any girl would be lucky to have you"
get the mindset:
try to be relax ( yeah it may be hard but the more nervous you are the more distant your date will be, you will be afraid to touch her, to make a move because you're nervous) what i usually do in this case is say to myself:
I'm just going to have fun, is going to be fun, and as long as i have fun i don't care.
Get her to come to you:
i think this is great strategy, if you get the girl to come to you, in some way. if you live in different cities that is great but if you don't then, at least let her drive to a location close to your house, tell her to follow you and you direct her where to park, then you go from there in you car. this has worked for me, the rationale behind it is that you get her from her place or confort to yours. SHE IS IN YOUR TERRITORY NOW (she is making the effort to get to you, not the other way around)
have a plan:
think up of atleast 4 different things that ARE FUN FOR YOU!!!
remember that you just want to have fun!!! you don't want to impress her, you don't want to take her where she wants, you will have time later to talk about her interests but for now IT IS YOUR DAY OUT. if she is boring atleast you went somewher FUN FOR YOU.
"wher are we going?" will come up soon enough, this is where you give her options but also tell her where YOU RATHER GO.
(besides you're paying so why not have your way)
location setting:
i rather go somewhere fun where the oportunity to tease her and playful touching will occur, that way you start getting some familiarity with your touch going.
get the KISS over with
from my last date i noticed that kissing the girl on the MIDDLE of the date, specially when you are having fun, works best for me because i get the whole tension over with, now she KNOWS what I WANT, and I FIND OUT WHAT SHE WANTS.
if she gives you the cheek or rejects the kiss then you can cut the date short and not waste more money or time and if it goes good then you can later get laid or build up the momment by more kissing.
usually i try to give the girl "tension time" to let her get ready to accept or reject the kiss (NEVER EVER EVER ASK IF YOU CAN KISS HER) that is why you give her TENSION TIME.
Later on you can get her somewhere isolated, this is why i like her to park close to my place that way i can either invite her to come over, depending on how the date went or we can chill in or on top of my car talking, hugging and just cuddling (girls like this) you get to talk and kiss some more, but don't be all over her kiss then pull back and talk just lie there enjoy the moment then you can kiss again. talk some more, start touching her (not in a perveted way)
start with the shoulders, then the arms, then the stomach,
usually making fun of her ass, or boobs or legs or somthing works, then you can kinda say your messing and find a compliment to say while you touch her ass, boobs, or whatever your making fun of
something like " aww don't be hurt, i acutally like your ass, is so round and firm, it's nice" while you touch it and pat it or spank it.
well i hope this helps
use it as a guideline not a strict, rule that it must be so
HAVE FUN, man!!!!!!!!!!! GIRLS ARE FUN, DATING IS FUN, IS NOT WORK it is not SIENCE, relax AND HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and I am so generous i am sharing it with all of you guys. hehehehehehehe
before a date you need to have the following:
confidence building articles. these can be
1- your best clothes
2- your best watch
3- recent hair cut
4- (you shaved your balls recently).............heheheh whatever makes you feel good
the point is that you are happy how you look, and to you, you look good.
it never hurts to look at yourself in the mirror and say to yourself "look hot"
"you are the greatest" "any girl would be lucky to have you"
get the mindset:
try to be relax ( yeah it may be hard but the more nervous you are the more distant your date will be, you will be afraid to touch her, to make a move because you're nervous) what i usually do in this case is say to myself:
I'm just going to have fun, is going to be fun, and as long as i have fun i don't care.
Get her to come to you:
i think this is great strategy, if you get the girl to come to you, in some way. if you live in different cities that is great but if you don't then, at least let her drive to a location close to your house, tell her to follow you and you direct her where to park, then you go from there in you car. this has worked for me, the rationale behind it is that you get her from her place or confort to yours. SHE IS IN YOUR TERRITORY NOW (she is making the effort to get to you, not the other way around)
have a plan:
think up of atleast 4 different things that ARE FUN FOR YOU!!!
remember that you just want to have fun!!! you don't want to impress her, you don't want to take her where she wants, you will have time later to talk about her interests but for now IT IS YOUR DAY OUT. if she is boring atleast you went somewher FUN FOR YOU.
"wher are we going?" will come up soon enough, this is where you give her options but also tell her where YOU RATHER GO.
(besides you're paying so why not have your way)
location setting:
i rather go somewhere fun where the oportunity to tease her and playful touching will occur, that way you start getting some familiarity with your touch going.
get the KISS over with
from my last date i noticed that kissing the girl on the MIDDLE of the date, specially when you are having fun, works best for me because i get the whole tension over with, now she KNOWS what I WANT, and I FIND OUT WHAT SHE WANTS.
if she gives you the cheek or rejects the kiss then you can cut the date short and not waste more money or time and if it goes good then you can later get laid or build up the momment by more kissing.
usually i try to give the girl "tension time" to let her get ready to accept or reject the kiss (NEVER EVER EVER ASK IF YOU CAN KISS HER) that is why you give her TENSION TIME.
Later on you can get her somewhere isolated, this is why i like her to park close to my place that way i can either invite her to come over, depending on how the date went or we can chill in or on top of my car talking, hugging and just cuddling (girls like this) you get to talk and kiss some more, but don't be all over her kiss then pull back and talk just lie there enjoy the moment then you can kiss again. talk some more, start touching her (not in a perveted way)
start with the shoulders, then the arms, then the stomach,
usually making fun of her ass, or boobs or legs or somthing works, then you can kinda say your messing and find a compliment to say while you touch her ass, boobs, or whatever your making fun of
something like " aww don't be hurt, i acutally like your ass, is so round and firm, it's nice" while you touch it and pat it or spank it.
well i hope this helps
use it as a guideline not a strict, rule that it must be so
HAVE FUN, man!!!!!!!!!!! GIRLS ARE FUN, DATING IS FUN, IS NOT WORK it is not SIENCE, relax AND HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and I am so generous i am sharing it with all of you guys. hehehehehehehe