There is absolutely gorgeous girl in one of my classes that sits next to me. A solid 9. In the last few weeks I finally started to talk to her and she seems to like that I do. She's a freshman and seems like a party girl. I'm 24 so I hope I can use that to my advantage. Any advice for how to take things to the next level. I'm taking a "refuse to lose" approach to this.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Advice for getting this really hot girl in my class
- Thread starter JoeJoe85
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
Be persistent but drop the "I'm not a loser!" attitude, because you really have nothing to lose by pursuing her.JoeJoe85 said:
The following info will only help you if you change your initial attitude:
1. Flirt with her and don't be afraid to disagree (honestly disagreeing)
2. Walk out of class with her; don't let her escape so easily!
3. Get her number and arrange a time to "hangout" so that you can build comfort in a non-academic environment because being in class interrupts your game.
I was talking to a couple girls in class today and the teacher was completely on my ass when I was flirting with one of them next to me. Luckily, I took care of the situation and didn't risk getting called out again so I didn't start up any more conversation with the girl.
Pickup in classes is an excellent opportunity! You just have to go into comfort outside of the classroom, while maintaining attraction and rapport in the classroom.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
You have to make her wonder if you are hitting on her or not. And don't do that by occasionally saying things that are outright mean; a lot of guys confuse that with a neg hit. It is ok to enjoy a genuine laugh at her expense if something is honestly funny. Other than that, just vary your level of interest enough to keep her guessing. That is the fun part for a girl. Most guys blow it by being way too obvious.