Okay guys I'm in need of some help here. I have this girl i've been talking 2 for a little while. So far everything is going good. We have a very sexual attraction and great chemistry going between us. The only thing need now is some ideas for action dates that we can go on. I stay in pretty nice size city and there seems to be alot of places to go. I would greatly appreciate any tips or advice.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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- Thread starter EWJ
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
bluemanson
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how about some putt putt, bowling or ice skating, something that both of you have to do
google your city. Most decent sized cities have websites that list activities and events going on.
This late in october look for harvest festivals, fairs, and the odd halloween party.
For everyday use, here's a list i copied from a post i searched up.
uhh.. mind you, i only read the first few, it's long and i can't be arsed to read it all
Walk in the park - throwing freezbe, football, soccer. Paddle boat around a lake.
Mini Golf
Bowling
Ice Skating
Pool Hall
Art Museums/Galleries
Comedy Clubs
Movie - Horror,comedy or suspense. Good for a third date.
Beach - go get some pizza and play freezbe, volleyball. Moonlight walking.
Rent a movie in your place - Anything really. Have some drinks, some snacks get kino going.
Carnival
Amusement Parks
Fair
Rock Climbing.
Planetarium
Mall - get a massage in a spa with your date ( aqua massage + some relaxation toys or insence )and go for the movies.
Skiing/snowboarding
rollerblading
Theatrical Play
Boating
hiking or bikeriding
Driving around in a car.
Arcade
Laser tag
Go-Karting
Sport game: Basketbal/tennis and then a picnic.
Board game: Twister or other exciting game.
community events
haunted house
Sporting Events
Horseback riding.
Cultural food,
Go Sledding tubing when it snows
thrift shopping/flea market
pottery workshop
Art festival - Worshops, museum gallaries. Learn to paint.
Zoo or petting zoo
Swimming pool/hot tub = Late at night, outdoors in the dark.
Bar with a Patio - play darts.
Aquarium
Get a fire pit going on the beach or in the woods.
Dance Lessons- Salsa clubs.
Factory tours - look it up.
Jazz - coffee houses, bar. festivals.
Going to an icecream place.
1 day commuinty classes - Painting, photography, dancing and sailing.
- Walking tours or bus tours in your city
- Charity walks/runs/bike rides
- Voulenteering
- Day trip
- Big Boat trip
- Wild water rafting.
- Star gazing
- Boat rental places
- Look up special events in the paper - The Saturday or Sunday paper in your area will have a list of special events for the weekend.
- Flee market
- playgorund.
- Monster track rally
- feeding ducks in a pound.
- Drive in movies.
- Carridge pulled by a horse.
- Fishing pools
- hot air ballooning
- Plant trees.
- Cooking class/wine tasting.
- shooting range
- Dave and Busters
- Martini Lounges
- Breakfast. Brunch. Lunch. Dinner.
- live concert
- Karaoke/singing
- Coffee houses
- Circus
- Watch fireworks
- Wrestling
- Batting cages
- Casino's
- DINNER THEATRE
- HAY RIDES
- HORSE RACES OR DOG RACES
- JET SKIS
- KITE FLYING
- LIMOUSINE DATE
- LIVE MUSIC - Concert.
- Ping pong
- Auto Show
- Go on a scavenger hunt
- pet store
fun zone places - trampoline bumper cars.
- Virtual reality tours.
- exotic restaurants, bubble tea places.
This late in october look for harvest festivals, fairs, and the odd halloween party.
For everyday use, here's a list i copied from a post i searched up.
uhh.. mind you, i only read the first few, it's long and i can't be arsed to read it all
Walk in the park - throwing freezbe, football, soccer. Paddle boat around a lake.
Mini Golf
Bowling
Ice Skating
Pool Hall
Art Museums/Galleries
Comedy Clubs
Movie - Horror,comedy or suspense. Good for a third date.
Beach - go get some pizza and play freezbe, volleyball. Moonlight walking.
Rent a movie in your place - Anything really. Have some drinks, some snacks get kino going.
Carnival
Amusement Parks
Fair
Rock Climbing.
Planetarium
Mall - get a massage in a spa with your date ( aqua massage + some relaxation toys or insence )and go for the movies.
Skiing/snowboarding
rollerblading
Theatrical Play
Boating
hiking or bikeriding
Driving around in a car.
Arcade
Laser tag
Go-Karting
Sport game: Basketbal/tennis and then a picnic.
Board game: Twister or other exciting game.
community events
haunted house
Sporting Events
Horseback riding.
Cultural food,
Go Sledding tubing when it snows
thrift shopping/flea market
pottery workshop
Art festival - Worshops, museum gallaries. Learn to paint.
Zoo or petting zoo
Swimming pool/hot tub = Late at night, outdoors in the dark.
Bar with a Patio - play darts.
Aquarium
Get a fire pit going on the beach or in the woods.
Dance Lessons- Salsa clubs.
Factory tours - look it up.
Jazz - coffee houses, bar. festivals.
Going to an icecream place.
1 day commuinty classes - Painting, photography, dancing and sailing.
- Walking tours or bus tours in your city
- Charity walks/runs/bike rides
- Voulenteering
- Day trip
- Big Boat trip
- Wild water rafting.
- Star gazing
- Boat rental places
- Look up special events in the paper - The Saturday or Sunday paper in your area will have a list of special events for the weekend.
- Flee market
- playgorund.
- Monster track rally
- feeding ducks in a pound.
- Drive in movies.
- Carridge pulled by a horse.
- Fishing pools
- hot air ballooning
- Plant trees.
- Cooking class/wine tasting.
- shooting range
- Dave and Busters
- Martini Lounges
- Breakfast. Brunch. Lunch. Dinner.
- live concert
- Karaoke/singing
- Coffee houses
- Circus
- Watch fireworks
- Wrestling
- Batting cages
- Casino's
- DINNER THEATRE
- HAY RIDES
- HORSE RACES OR DOG RACES
- JET SKIS
- KITE FLYING
- LIMOUSINE DATE
- LIVE MUSIC - Concert.
- Ping pong
- Auto Show
- Go on a scavenger hunt
- pet store
fun zone places - trampoline bumper cars.
- Virtual reality tours.
- exotic restaurants, bubble tea places.