"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Acting weird

PeterCrouch

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Shes acting weird since last night, maybe an probably im reading too much into it but theres something different about her!

Last nite after telling her i like her best mate who has a bf (for which she asked constantly for about 30mins to get) she told me she loved me, i thought she was kidding altho i didnt entirely know, so i kinda said umm ok love ya 2 lol!

Then today i see her, she doesnt come over and say hello, just spoke to her she said she didnt say hi coz i was chatting which is fair enough, then she wants me to come to a fashion show with her on tuesday (her best mate and a good mate of mine (same bloke) will also be there) she says she will pay if i want! I say ill pay her back and ill come should be fun!

Then randomly (were on msn btw) she starts going xxx x x and i say thanks and she goes x love ya!

and not knowing again i said love ya 2!

Thing is i say brb and she says k hurry up! i say u miss me? yeah she says! i say well ur only human!

then i have to go so i go!

Thing is shes never acted like this before, for me i dunno if anyone else agrees, the xxx and the love ya is a sign of intrest? or is she just kidding? its not something shes ever said before nor acted like that before!

everytime ive asked her out to do something in the past shes said no!

shes always been quite flirtatous and touches alot!

i dunno, somethins weird about her last couple of days and i dont know what it is!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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spider_007

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it's funny haw they want what they can't have and don't want it when they can;)

ho's thought: "awww, he doesn't like me any more, he wants HER. i hope he saiz some i loves yous so that it helps my igo "

jaleousy among woman; IS A POWERFULL THING
 

frivolousz21

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if u have to worry about this crap or worry about games being played then this is a joke.



sorry!
 

PeterCrouch

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What do ya mean?

Please explain what you mean instead of just saying crap that no one cant understand!

Cheers
 

Bloke

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2 Qs

1. How old are ya? I'm guessing 15/116

2. Would you like to date this chick or are you too infatuated with her mate?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PeterCrouch

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im 18

up untill a few weeks ago when i started liking her mate, i would of said yes! last few weeks i didnt think i had a chance with her so i have done my best to get over her, then she goes and says this
 

spider_007

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look, we all like attention from opposite sex. it makes us feel good. RIGHT? You moved on, or at least she thinks you did (cause you told her you like another chick) so now she is disapointed. She is jaleous. She thought she had you in her pocket but you showed that you have other options.....So now she wants that attention back......

Fine be FRIENDS with her, but trust me, if you start hitting on her again you will be disapointed, She will have what she wants (somebody chasing her), and that is as far as she'll let it go.

Jaleousy among chicks is wery powerfull...
 
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