jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Hi there! Johnny here!
We usually hear and say that a man who has accepted that he has to put up with his girlfriend’s or wife’s “complaints” and “drama” in LTRs is simply a weak.
Lately, I’ve started looking at this differently because I know a friend who is a player.
For those of you who don’t know him, he has had more than 30 women, four LTRs, and he is now 45, stable in his last 15-year LTR.
He has basically acknowledged and accepted that all women are like this, to varying degrees.
So he chose the one who had the least of it. And that’s it.
Even if there is occasional major drama (something that a more self-respecting man might just walk away from), he simply says, “I wouldn’t leave. I know now there are other things beyond that.”
He told me that most men would stay with a woman who doesn’t respect them and they are completely unaware...
And this is what SoSuave is for. It basically teaches men these things, what is respect, when to walk away, etc.
But he is fully aware of what he sees as female nature, and he consciously accepts it.
He says it is the one burden a man has to carry if he wants the benefits that come with it: starting a family, being able to rely on her for certain things, and having someone who genuinely cares about him.
Compared to a life where he is constantly chasing women or keeping a rotation of partners, he told me he hasn’t given up, he has simply understood.
She will sometimes become distant, act cold, or even be disrespectful for a while, and then she will come back to herself.
He believes that this is the burden men have to bear.
At the same time, there is a kind of freedom, but also loneliness, that men can’t deny when they are alone while having all those plates around them.
This actually sounds more logical and natural for male nature.
But when they have a woman by their side, it’s like having a companion in a way that, if you’re heterosexual, you can’t quite find with another man.
He said that a man’s life can only change so much for the better when he finds a good woman, and in order for him to receive a good amount of respect, he has a single burden that he has to grow and mature to not care about too much.
Well, this is just something I wanted you guys to hear, and know your perspective about it
We usually hear and say that a man who has accepted that he has to put up with his girlfriend’s or wife’s “complaints” and “drama” in LTRs is simply a weak.
Lately, I’ve started looking at this differently because I know a friend who is a player.
For those of you who don’t know him, he has had more than 30 women, four LTRs, and he is now 45, stable in his last 15-year LTR.
He has basically acknowledged and accepted that all women are like this, to varying degrees.
So he chose the one who had the least of it. And that’s it.
Even if there is occasional major drama (something that a more self-respecting man might just walk away from), he simply says, “I wouldn’t leave. I know now there are other things beyond that.”
He told me that most men would stay with a woman who doesn’t respect them and they are completely unaware...
And this is what SoSuave is for. It basically teaches men these things, what is respect, when to walk away, etc.
But he is fully aware of what he sees as female nature, and he consciously accepts it.
He says it is the one burden a man has to carry if he wants the benefits that come with it: starting a family, being able to rely on her for certain things, and having someone who genuinely cares about him.
Compared to a life where he is constantly chasing women or keeping a rotation of partners, he told me he hasn’t given up, he has simply understood.
She will sometimes become distant, act cold, or even be disrespectful for a while, and then she will come back to herself.
He believes that this is the burden men have to bear.
At the same time, there is a kind of freedom, but also loneliness, that men can’t deny when they are alone while having all those plates around them.
This actually sounds more logical and natural for male nature.
But when they have a woman by their side, it’s like having a companion in a way that, if you’re heterosexual, you can’t quite find with another man.
He said that a man’s life can only change so much for the better when he finds a good woman, and in order for him to receive a good amount of respect, he has a single burden that he has to grow and mature to not care about too much.
Well, this is just something I wanted you guys to hear, and know your perspective about it