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Abstaining from contact with your gf?

arcilitei34

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Well, I already know that calling her once, every day is too much, or even talking once everyday on MSN or AIM is too much.
But what im wondering is, is will she be extra happier, or even extra hornier when you see her?
 

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Originally posted by arcilitei34
But what im wondering is, is will she be extra happier, or even extra hornier when you see her?
That all depends on a couple variables.

First: How often do you talk to her, every other day? Once a week? etc.

If you only use the phone to set up dates, she'll be a lot more excited to see you.

Will she be hornier? Just depends on the person, she'll most likely be hornier, but you gotta act on that, be really heavy, but then leave her in suspense.

Theres a good seduction guide you should read, etc.
 

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I only talk to her when she calls me every couple of days, something like once every two or three days, normally we only see each other once or twice a week.
 

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It all depends on the person. Personally, my GF likes to talk to me every day (she has issues with trust since her last BF cheated on her, but its getting better). I don't feel I need to call her every day, but it mainly depends on how you feel.
 

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