"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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About pickup artists

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The routines and methods of other people can be good -- as long as you don't mind selling your soul simply to manipulate some woman.
 

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Obsidian said:
The routines and methods of other people can be good -- as long as you don't mind selling your soul simply to manipulate some woman.
Don't be that naive, women are manipulating you or attempting to, every minute of your life, and it is widely accepted as normal, and making you feel guilty about learning how to neutralize their game is just another form of manipulation.
 

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Rutine

A rutine helps you to get in contact with a girl, it helps you to breake the ice, it is better have someting to say and then follow it from there than have nothing to say and be very nervous.

If you learn how routines work, later you can create routines on your own that aplies to your self. Imo I think that routines work wonders because they have been fieldtested and a newee can relax later he has to inovate his own material.

An error would be not to change because it goes boring.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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