Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Abandoning friends

wavejams007

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Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
Lol your right, I hope you read this as well wavejams. I was hella jaded, stupid as hell if you ask me. I just checked out how OLD this thread was, I am SOOOO sorry dude. You were right, I guess I was just venting, any time ANYBODY ever gets angry at you, just remember it's only because they are angry at themselves. You are the only person that really matters, well that is a lie. If they get mad at you, they are usually lacking somewhere, that they should have dealt with the problem already. I've learned a lot of lessons in my last 170 something posts, I wouldn't trade them for the world, I sure look back at some of them and see how self centered I was though. I was lying to ymself, that I was intelligent, and calling you guys out, omigod, I already knew the answer to my question, I wish I wasn't taking it out on you guys.
Cool man. You had me confused for a while there. Venting is good, and as long as it is a vent, I don't mind you taking it out n me. Better me then some hott girl that you will regret what you said later.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by wavejams007
Cool man. You had me confused for a while there. Venting is good, and as long as it is a vent, I don't mind you taking it out n me. Better me then some hott girl that you will regret what you said later.
For some reason, I like to play around with the hot girls. When I see they've got a hella problem. I lean back, and pretty much just whip it out! A joke about her problem that is, and than I let her get all angry about whatever annoying AW problem it is, and than it basically ends in make-up sex.

I feel that tension sometimes on here, I am still not 100% down with it, when talking to guys, on how to make new friends though.

I am horrible at the best friends part.
 
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