"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A weird conversation problem

akanyinyitun

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Hi guys
I am having a trouble here. Baiscally, ****blocking friend I cannot cut away.There are three people in a working room. Me, a girl and another guy. That girl is interested in me obviously. But that another guy is keep blocking from even talking. Since he knows that girl is interested in me, he is angry everytime I talk with that girl. And after a few days, that girl is even scared to talk to me only because that guy is angry and sometimes even try to make her feel bad if she talks to me.Now the result is that that girl is starting to feel scared to talk me and it is like I am out of the conversation. That guy and her only happen talk each other. Weird, isnt it? I try to get in the conversation but it makes me seems desperae and obvious. I have no idea how the hell i can solve this. She clearly knows whats happening. She is clearly interested in me and not him. That is for sure. She tried to go out with me and not hesitate to touch me. But she is afraid of him and scared to even talk to me now and i am kind of going away from the conversations. And I dont want that. How can I do this guy? And I am 100% sure that what i am talking is actually whats happening.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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