A very tragic story and the importance of holding frame

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Tilex

Master Don Juan

Dec 14, 2022

This guy didn't hold proper frame from the beginning, which made this family walk all over him.
He should've known better that he would've lost all of his freedom and privacy once they moved in.
I bet this guy's fiance had a very controlling father that constantly overstepped others boundaries.

Man fatally shoots fiancée’s dad, injures her sister and mom before killing himself

A Massachusetts man fatally shot his fiancée’s father and wounded her sister and mother before turning the gun on himself.

nypost.com

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.