"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A thought about a girl I was with last night

LuisGarcia10

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Not "with" in the sexual sense of the word, I was just at a party in a nightclub and she was there.

Anyway.

She got off with this bloke very publically, not a surprise because she has been after a sort of fling with someone for a while.

But afterwards she came onto the dancefloor where I was having a laugh with a mate and sort of came in between us and said hello etc, then started hugging me. Admitedly I was sort of trying to ignore her originally, not because I had a problem with her at all, just because I was having a laugh with my mate at the time and I knew she'd probably want to start speaking to me etc, but she made it impossible to ignore her by standing right infront of me etc etc.

I left the dancefloor quite shortly afterwards because I didn't really feel comfortable with it when the guy she had been getting off with could probably see. So she then followed me to the bar and started speaking to me, then told me that she got off with this guy and how fit he is etc.

Thought nothing of it at the time, but then realised it's quite a strange thing to do, to go and pull someone then just randomly tell people about it, especially as we aren't really that close, if it was me that had been getting off with a girl I wouldn't ever think to go and tell her for no apperent reason, for example.

I have just thought that maybe this was some ploy to try and make me jealous maybe. Obviously I'll never know for sure but I just wondered that from people's experiences on this board whether or not that sounds realistic or whether I am just being over-analytical and she probably just said it at face value and didn't intend anything by it.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Meh, who cares?
 
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