"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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beatoven

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A while back, I was the stereotype of AFC and became the “guy friend” and emotional tampon of this extremely attractive girl. Long story short, I got sick of the abuse, we got into an argument, and I cut off all contact with her. She didn’t like it but I held my ground.

Fast forward two months. I’ve read the DJ Bible, lurked a bit, know what to do and avoid, and decided to see if there was even a tiny chance of turning things around.

Out of the blue, I texted her, telling her to come with me to a hockey game. I got a series of texts from her, mostly confused and surprised that I was contacting her. After waiting a while I texted her back, telling her I’d pick her up that night. She said she was going with another person, but I could come. I declined and stopped texting her.

Tonight she texted me saying we should go to another game, and I agreed and arranged a time.

So I picked her up, and it was a bit awkward. I didn’t say much, let her do the talking. Things went pretty good at first, and I used ****y/funny but I could see I was losing her. So I decided to try kino. Before this I’d never laid a finger on her. However, I decided to touch her shoulder to get her attention when I had to get up to go to the bathroom.

The effect was electric.

She blinked, jumped, and gasped when I touched her. At first I was like, oh f*ck what have I done?

But when I came back from the bathroom, she was a completely different person. Hanging on my every word, laughing at my stupid jokes, soaking up the ****y/funny. It was like the whole AFC thing never happened with her. I swear I had no idea that such a simple touch was so powerful. Much more touching took place, culminating when I helped her out of her chair to leave, grabbing her hand and touching her lower back.

It was an amazing evening. We had so much fun, and I am definitely out of the friend zone.

And as an added bonus, girls were checking us out and glaring at my friend! And I even flashed a smug grin at a less attractive girl who stopped responding to my calls (yea, I know, immature).



This website is ****ing GOLD. Everything here works in real life. I was able to turn a hopeless situation into a potential relationship. The DJ Bible should be required reading for every man.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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HolyG

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There you go. Put in the work, reap the rewards.
 

CaptainJ

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Damn nice work man. I didn't think it was possible for someone to turn from AFC to DJ in just 2 months. This story also proves the fact that Women have a VERY selective memory and will embrace any change in your personality without question. Men on the other hand HATE it when you change, so prepare to see a lot of haters. The quicker you change, the more haters.
 

DavenJuan

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beatoven said:
A while back, I was the stereotype of AFC and became the “guy friend” and emotional tampon of this extremely attractive girl. Long story short, I got sick of the abuse, we got into an argument, and I cut off all contact with her. She didn’t like it but I held my ground.

Fast forward two months. I’ve read the DJ Bible, lurked a bit, know what to do and avoid, and decided to see if there was even a tiny chance of turning things around.

Out of the blue, I texted her, telling her to come with me to a hockey game. I got a series of texts from her, mostly confused and surprised that I was contacting her. After waiting a while I texted her back, telling her I’d pick her up that night. She said she was going with another person, but I could come. I declined and stopped texting her.

Tonight she texted me saying we should go to another game, and I agreed and arranged a time.

So I picked her up, and it was a bit awkward. I didn’t say much, let her do the talking. Things went pretty good at first, and I used ****y/funny but I could see I was losing her. So I decided to try kino. Before this I’d never laid a finger on her. However, I decided to touch her shoulder to get her attention when I had to get up to go to the bathroom.

The effect was electric.

She blinked, jumped, and gasped when I touched her. At first I was like, oh f*ck what have I done?

But when I came back from the bathroom, she was a completely different person. Hanging on my every word, laughing at my stupid jokes, soaking up the ****y/funny. It was like the whole AFC thing never happened with her. I swear I had no idea that such a simple touch was so powerful. Much more touching took place, culminating when I helped her out of her chair to leave, grabbing her hand and touching her lower back.

It was an amazing evening. We had so much fun, and I am definitely out of the friend zone.

And as an added bonus, girls were checking us out and glaring at my friend! And I even flashed a smug grin at a less attractive girl who stopped responding to my calls (yea, I know, immature).



This website is ****ing GOLD. Everything here works in real life. I was able to turn a hopeless situation into a potential relationship. The DJ Bible should be required reading for every man.

"ELECTRIC" ... I like your description. and yes, kino is a very powerful thing. it says SOOO many things without saying a single word.

it lets people know that you are comfortable with yourself and with them. that you are USE to being a social being and around people

it says that you are an expressive person, and that you dont have a problem expressing yourself to others.

but MOST IMPORTANTLY, what it told HER, was that you are not the "guy friend". you are a man just like the other men she may find attractive. a "touch" can mean many things, and i am a strong advocate of kino.

After awhile its not even "kino'ing" anymore. its a part of YOU. you touch everyone, you speak with your hands. and what is amazing, is that OTHER people start to open up to you alot easier, they get very comfortable around you.

good luck brother... and have FUN
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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