"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A stressed day at work

mustfirstregister

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I had a stressful day at work today. My plan was to go out to sarge after work. It's my usual sarging schedule. However didn't really feel it after work. So instead I decided to go gamble and I didn't care about losing money I just wanted to release some stress and didn't want to go home early. So I can come here and write it. I played the slot machines I was winning $10 after 1h but then I end up losing $150 in 2.5 hours. Then after losing I went to stuff myself at the buffet $17. Lunch time I spent $8, $50 for gas. In total I spent/lost $225 today. I make around $40/h so that's equivalent to 5.5 hours of work. :cry: :cry:
I'm feeling a little better and tired now.:) :crazy:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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suavesuave

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