"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A somewhat unique situation

Rubirosa

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I sometimes hang out at this one nightclub. No cover, I hang with a few friends, dance with some Filipinas that are really just "dancing friends" etc.....
There's this one chick. Many moons ago, I was kinda flirting with her and she seemed interested. She's "OK" looking, but I was not really that serious. We exchanged numbers, but we never went out. One time oughta boredom, I called her pretending to be someone else....just a silly prank call, but she went totally crazy on me. Said that I shouldn't have called her when she was at work...blah blah blah. I tried to explain that I was just trying to add some fun to her life, but OK, I was sorry.....Whatever..........
She goes around the club telling every female that will listen how I'm such a terrible guy....I know a lot of these chicks she was talking to, and they were laughing at her behind her back for creating so much drama out of nothing. They tell me she's kinda crazy (well yeah.........!!!)
Here's the deal. She's started bringing a friend to the club. Smoking !!! A 9 or a 10.....This chick has guys on her all night trying to hook up, but she just dances then leaves with Ms. Nutjob every night.
I want to work it. Do I go up to her and say "Don't judge me based on what your friend is saying.....Let me explain........"
The big problem is that these 2 never are separate the whole evening. Advice welcome...........
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Allurre

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No need for explanations. Just put your game on her. She will eventually form her own judgment of you, or edit her Ms. nutjob's version of you.

Your present actions will speak voluminously more than rumors.
 

Deadly_Ripped

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If she's a "good" friend of the crazy one, she'll tease you and then embarass you in front of as many people as possible.

You have to separate the haters from the targets, and that's almost impossible if they show up together and leave together. You'd never get more than 10 minutes alone with her, and can you imagine how hateful the crazy one would be if she came back to her friend and you were chatting it up with her?
 

terran2k

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you can try, but it'll be a battle with the crazy one, she will **** block you every chance she gets.
give it a try
 
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