"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A Small Problem

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or perhaps it's a good thing. :)

Anyway, I have recently become better friends with this group of girls. I have known them for awhile, but we started hanging out more recently, so thing are going pretty good. All of them are seniors, except for one junior. For the record, I am a junior. The one junior girl really likes me. Her friends have said it, I know it, and it can be spotted from about a mile away. One of the senior girls likes me a lot too. Finally, I like another one of the seniors, and we are pretty cool. She hasn't shown the same level of interest as the other two, but she's a little bit shyer than the other two to begin with. So, to sum it up, there are three girls who I could possibly get into a relationship with. Normally, that would be great, and I like all of these girls. The problem is, though, that they are all good friends.

I want to try to get something going with the more shy senior girl, but if it doesn't really work, I am concerned the potential for anything to happen with the other two would be gone, since they are all such close friends.

Am I justified in thinking that, or am I simply too worried?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think it would be fine if you go for the shy senior.
If anything it would make the other girls like you more ;) (jealousy)

Just go for it...you'll regret it if you don't.
 
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