"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A Serious Fallacy on this website regarding success

So pimp its scary

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Joe dirt, in our little debate, which one of us is more accurate depends exactly on what is said to the imaginary Mr.AFC.

Consider the sentance "Rejection isnn't that bad... try to prove otherwise."

But, I did have to mention that for any life changing results to come from Mr. AFC, is only going to happen if he is DEDICATED to making MASSIVE CHANGES in his thinking. That's not something easy to ask of someone... hell, it took me 3 single years (without so much as getting a girls phone number) before I realized that I even WAS doing something wrong. Then after finding this website, with everything laid out in front of me, I took another 6 months preparing myself mentally for when I was going to go out in the real world and put this shyt into practice regardless of the results (any results would have been better than what I was getting)

Animal Crackers - You know what the real sad thing is : That the majority of people that should be reading over this type of discussion to understand what it really takes behind the scenes... WILL NOT EVEN CLICK the LINK TO READ IT.

Fall back lines are absolutely crucial... shyt that sets you apart.

A bit less for a sexual context, but whenever I sneeze I say "Bless me." and if they comment on that "Well, you weren't gonna do it for me." (I haven't had a girl react badly to that one... not that they jumped my bones because of it either, but hey)
Or, like in DD's DVD, when they sneeze 'Hey, this is nothing to sneeze at here.'

One Arm DJ - if the woman is vibing you, she will really enjoy that type of surprise...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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