"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A reminder for the AFC in you!

niceguydying

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I visited by brother this weekend and his girl works at this place where she is trying to hook her coworkers up with me. Anyways, she was telling my brother and I about their conversation w/ these girls at work before she got home. She basically stated that these girls were tired of going out with guys that don't present a challenge and do whatever they say. They also said they wanted to date a guy that will put them in their place sometimes. His girl was very hesitant about discussing other details, I guess she didn't want to give all her girl secrets away.

I thought about this forum as soon as she told us this though. I am thinking getting hooked up with a few of these women is going to be that much easier since I know how not to be an AFC. Am I a DJ? Harldy... In the process of not being the AFC I used to be.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bourne

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My ex used to tell me how much fun she has with me when I didn't take her sh1t. That her ex-b/fs would take her b1tching and moaning and not say anything. She even made a few of them cry.
 
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