"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A question what to do

thrilling_cold

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My name is Raj. I m from india. i m 18 years old
Now i came to point
i love a girl which is elder in age & is 20 years old.
I know she also likes me & she also gave me her number.
i started messeging her. i sent her some what 15 messages in a day which all were funny.
but after two days message came from her which was as follows-
"sorry, i know u r younger 2 me n u r sending me msgs as a friend or as a brother & i also send u msgs like that only but my mother doesn't like so dont msg me ok"
after that another msg of only 15 sorry's came from her immidiately.
i thinked that i had forwarded him a wrong msg & i replied to her
"ok dear i wil not msg u anymore but plz forgive me if i have done something wrong knowingly or unknowingly or u have to bear something because of me"
on that another msg came from her
"u didn't done anything wrong. i know u r sending me msg as friend or brother & i dont mind. mamma also dont mind but she tells if any one knows it will look bad"
on which i replied
"yes u r right & elders r alwys right & i will not msg u"
then another msg came from her
"sorry sorry sorry n i haven't bear anything because of me. u have not done anything wrong. sorry sorry really sorry i dont mind ur msgs & u can send me msgs but i cant send to u"
& then no msg came from her

Now my question is what should i do
this story is of tomorrow night.
plz help me
what is she thinking?
Is she considers me in other way?
so, Plz help me
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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smooth guy

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LOL..

Dude have you even read the Dj Bible? Reading only a bit of it will answer most of your questions..
 

spider_007

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I'm glad im not from that region. Being a while looser, can't even compare to living in a strict culture, where even if you had game, you don't have a chance.....and then when they come here, they see more discrimination then any black person sees, and they never get a piece of ass unless it's from some slvt who does averyone, or an arranged woman......THAT JUST SUX
 
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