"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A Question To Everybody On This Forum!!!!

Moon Ram

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I have a question for everyone. Why are you here? Why do you want to seduce a women? Do you want a wife or do you want to fcuk hundreds of women or do you want to lose your virginity? I can understand if you want a wife. But why do you want to fcuk hundreds of women or why do you want to loose your virginity? Why do you want to be a man-hor? Would you yourself like to marry a hore? Why do you want to loose your virginity? Is it because of social peers. Why do you give a fcuk about what other people think of you. I know what you guys are thinking, you want to loose your virginity because you think that, you will become a man when you loose your virginity. Is this your definition of a man? Do you want to know my definition of a man? MAN: A peson who is responsible, can take care of himself and others, who can take what he needs, who don't give a damn what others think of him, who is happy with what he has, who wants the best of everythihg and who can respect himself.
I am this guy which has the ability to make any girl fall madly in love with me in few minutes. But I have one problem, I don't know what to do after that. I don't need a wife right now(I'm 17!), what is the use of loosing my virginity or fcuking hundreds of women? I wasted one whole year in gaining a ability, and now, I don't know what to do with this ability. WHAT DO I WANT FROM GIRLS? This is the question that runs across my mind whenever I try to make any moves against any women right now.I feel like a car which is running with its break on. Right now I hesitate in approching an women because of this question. This question is the root of all my current problems. Can you guys answer these questions especially the last one?:confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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thehexman

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Well, only you can answer that question. Why do you ask it in the first place?

I suspect that you do not yet have an idea of the direction you want to choose in your life, and this question you fling at us is just an expression of that.

Many people here have found, after a while, a good woman to marry and have a family with, but they cycled through the women and found out about what they really expected from a life partner/wife/mate/whatever. I think this is a major point of DJing anyhow, finding out about yourself and your expectations.

Give it a bit of time, you're still young and I can assure you that in a few years your views will have changed.
 

Maxtro

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Moon Ram said:
I have a question for everyone. Why are you here? Why do you want to seduce a women? Do you want a wife or do you want to fcuk hundreds of women or do you want to lose your virginity?
I want to fuck lots of women maybe not a hundred, but a lot more than the average man gets.
But why do you want to fcuk hundreds of women? Why do you want to be a man-hor? Is it because of social peers? Would you yourself like to marry a hore?
The reason that I want to have sex with a lot of women is because I feel that I have been cheated out of it. These days the average person looses their virginity at 16. I lost mine at 22 and that was through unscrupulous means. I've had sex with a few women since then but it's only been one occasion with each and how I "got" them I wouldn't feel comfortable telling anybody in person.

So far I've had a terrible sex life and the last time I got any was over a year ago. I feel that I have been denied sex and I want to take more than my share of it. It's basically an, "in your face" to fate :box:

Also there are so many beautiful women out there and I want to always be surrounded by women, and be able to have them whenever I desire. As for my peers. I'm tired of always being the guy that is always alone. Well I don't really care what other people say or think of me, I just want to feel good for myself.

Will I marry a whore? That depends on what you think a whore is.

Why do you give a fcuk about what other people think of you. I know what you guys are thinking, you want to loose your virginity because you think that, you will become a man when you loose your virginity. Is this your definition of a man? Do you want to know my definition of a man? MAN: A peson who is responsible, can take care of himself and others, who can take what he needs, who don't give a damn what others think of him, who is happy with what he has, who wants the best of everythihg and who can respect himself.
I agree with you on your definition of what a man is. And that is something that I am trying to become. Being able to have sex with a lot of women is only a small part of that.

WHAT DO I WANT FROM GIRLS?
I want sex. I want their company. I want to hear their voices, feel their skin and smell their hair. I want to have fun and I don't want to be alone. I want what I don't have and all the things that I'm missing or not even aware of.
 

Bible_Belt

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I am this guy which has the ability to make any girl fall madly in love with me in few minutes...what is the use of loosing my virginity?


Let's not get carried away in assessing your seduction skills, given that you are still a virgin :)

You can't knock sex until you try it. I think you are just making excuses to avoid what you fear.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Fox_and_the_Grapes

But you are only 17 and have plenty of time. Go and screw a couple dozen women every which way, and then you can bemoan the emptiness of being a man wh0re.
 

drak_ool

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Bible_Belt said:
Go and screw a couple dozen women every which way, and then you can bemoan the emptiness of being a man wh0re.
end of story

see you in a couple years
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mcs

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i want wife. really i do. but before that i have to practice on other women to achieve my goal. which is getting girl i really like without freaking out etc. not getting eventually some midget.
 

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I've learned a lot from this place over the years, why leave now?

I don't post much, but I do post when some of the so-called experts give lame advice to inquiring minds.
 
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Daddy The Pimp

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Firstly im here to become better person .

Im generally good with girls . I was good at the begining too ( before i found community ).

But NOW im here because i like talking about these things , giving/getting some advices , discussin about things that work and things that dont work .

I also wanna be able to attract/seduce every girl i want . every girl ( even teachers , milfs who have 20 years more than me ).And this is fun :D
 

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Natural instincts make men want to "fcuk" or "keep the species going", so therefore being a man is being a "man-hor". Religion and maybe feminism (I'm just throwing that out there) make you think being with one woman is natural.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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