"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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a question of principle

Julian

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alright so recently i got a job at a hollisters which is dope because there are tons of fine honeys there.

Anyway these *******s tell me today that i need to shave my mustache because everyone needs to be clean shaven. They tell me this a week after ive already started.

Now its not a crazy mustache, its just a thin pirate one like orlando bloom in pirates of the carribean. Its not a big deal to shave it but it just pisses me off how they tell me a week after they hired me.

Also i love my mustache, its part me of. I know it will grow back but its like wtf, how you gonna try and crack down on this now.

Anyway there is this fine ass latina that works there who is very receptive to me but im not trying to mack too much because they have a "no fraternizing" policy. Funk that.

I dont think ill shave it. I will simply tell them that if they dont like it they can take a walk.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tell them its a matter of principle. They will be like "A MATTER OF PRINCIPLE!?" O my, if its a "MATTER OF PRINCIPLE" that changes everything....
 

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dude, im also in a job as a barman, they tell me I cant gel my hair and when I dont gel it they tell me to neaten it up. I model, therefore I always use gel to style my hair( and its good looking and its NEAT) but now they take that away so I look like a shmuck! But ive realized thats how its going to be UNLESS you are in a high status position in your job or you the owner. Get used to it Julian, dont not listen otherwise you will have very few jobs over the next couple years.
 

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haha yeah i wish
 
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