A question for guys aged 21 to 40

[Maximus Optimus]

Do you think most guys meet women these days through the internet(Instagram, Bumble, POF, Facebook, Match, etc) versus going up to a girl and asking for her phone number? Is talking to a random woman out in public outdated?

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Do you think most guys meet women these days through the internet(Instagram, Bumble, POF, Facebook, Match, etc) versus going up to a girl and asking for her phone number? Is talking to a random woman out in public outdated?

To answer your first question, not sure if most guys nowadays "meet" women via OLD. But there is a vast amount, yes.

Are we opposed to OLD? Yes, but that is a different conversation and most folks here would be happy to support OLD and if you disagree with them their reply is "it's just another option" or the classic "more for me".

We actually like a challenge, and if we are being honest old school, when it comes to intergender dynamics and interactions. Talking to a woman in real life can be outdated and awkward if you make it so. The more you practice and make it a habit, 2 or 3 times per day and not just your average HB6, challenge yourself and approach HB8+ and over time it'll feel natural and it'll start working wonders on your mindset which is what we care about. Forget women for a second, your habits either make you or break you, what are you telling yourself when you only approach HB8+in real life? Think about that for a second. This is about your growth, not your d**k.

Out two cents.


Cheers,
Modern Man Advice

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I feel like most men meet women through work, mutual friends, and etc. I've never had the privilege of being around women in those environments so it's been OLD for me mainly. In college, I met them at parties or mutual friends though.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

We need to get away from this idea that all women are equal, all will react similarly... This is what I know, that some women were ready to have Sex before I was and that the guy available online is not Mr. Right, but Mr. Right Now.

Some women are receptive to an in person approach from Mr. Right Now, but most are not.

Some of us exist as Mr. Right Now in the lives of some women and some do not, it isn't a mystery that the Mr. Right Now's all share common traits.

So if you have those traits and can be Mr. Right Now, online, you will have success, period.

Im tired of men on here all claiming we are all playing the same game with the same women, it's silly.

Here is your answer: Get a job, or get a better job. Adopt a diet, or a better diet. Adopt a work out or a better work out.

This statement above, is the culmination of dating advice you will receive here. It's not a bad thing, but it's much more simple than what most of us want to believe.

 

[deadmasterx]

Do you think most guys meet women these days through the internet(Instagram, Bumble, POF, Facebook, Match, etc) versus going up to a girl and asking for her phone number? Is talking to a random woman out in public outdated?

Yes, and there are two main reasons why

1) It's comfortable for men to just go to the Instagram profile of the girls they're interested in, talk to her and arrange a date than doing it face to face. First because on Instagram she will only see your good side, cool pictures, and it's easier to have a "game" online than face to face. Second because most men are still afraid of rejection. Third because it's simply more comfortable. You can get yourself a date while taking a **** in the bathroom, no worries.

2) For women, they can reject you easier, with little to no risk of you doing something in return. Not that some angry guy words won't affect her, but ignoring you or simply rejecting you in a social media is way easier for her than doing it face to face. Even shy girls that "can't say no" can say NO under these circumstances.

I would say that this kind of approach is somehow outdated, but is still the most effective one. Nothing compares to face to face communication, being able to see her expressions and let her see your confident body language.

 

[derby1]

Do you think most guys meet women these days through the internet

I hook up with around 2 women a month through facebook only, Just the same as i would day game, If they give me a scenario I give them a DM about the scenario they created, its easy as 123