"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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a person who has mental illenss would u date em

joe45

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lets say you meet someone off pof or even from your everyday life and you go out right, how can you tell if they have a mental illness or not. like schizto, bi polar, ... or any of those crazy mental illness. i don;t want to date some person with it and find out they might even harm me physically too.
you hear it on the news some guy stabbed a young guy for no reason in the greyhound bus-what the heck hey.
so how can you tell, if they have schitzi, bi polar, ...etc or any of those illness and if so what can you do
if you did find out would u date them , or even be their friend. what kind of things can they do to you, or harm you, do you think if u have kids with them -that their kids will have it too
i met one guy he told me he had schtizo, but he looked normal and all but just seemed like a loner. -he told me the goverment gave him money to go to school b/c hes on disbality since he has schizto
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DarthAngel707

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I have an uncle who always seems to pick messed up women. Last time I checked his wife had to go to the hospital because she was threatening to stab the children. It's sad since he's a muscular, good-looking guy who happens to always go for the crazy women.

IMO, common sense dictates to stay away from these women since they will drag you down with them because of all their problems. Why would you even consider this unless you have some sort of weird fetish for saving crazy, messed up women?
 

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Why would you even consider this unless you have some sort of weird fetish for saving crazy, messed up women?


Crazy people are good in bed. That's why crazy chicks always seem to have a man - they are good at fvcking.

I have had girlfriends with borderline personality disorder, OCD, and chronic depression. They were all amazing in bed.
 
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