A note to the high schoolers on this forum

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Master Don Juan

Sep 3, 2014

Skinnyguy seems to be exposing his real self.

Why weren't YOU starting the parties?

If all the girls in your uni were ugly why didn't you find "cuter" girls elsewhere?

Why didn't you become "the man" everyone went to for parties?

If you would've ended up in the same place if you hadn't gone to a top-20 university, isn't that because you didn't make the most of your opportunities?

Charismatic people DRAW other interesting people to themselves...they don't have to go out of their way to find them.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.