"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A new week..A new beginning for us all..

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Time to start a new week, guys. Time for a fresh start. Your gonna make sure you got everything ready for tomorrow, your lunch boxes:p , your clothes, your briefcases, your aftershaves, your lunch, and anything else you need.
Then, your gonna go to bed early, your gonna sleep without any TV blaring, or nay music in the background. Open the window, and listen before you go to bed. Listen to the cars drone, the last birdsongs, the chatter in the distance. Then your gonna drift into a deep sleep.
Your gonna wake up earlier than usual. Your gonna put on a top, some shorts, and some trainers. Your gonna take a nice, quiet jog through your neighborhood, and your gonna listen to the world around you. Your gonna look at the details, your going to notice the things that others don't. Your going to be more receptive to the world, and your gonna feel good.
Your gonna get home, have some healthy breakfast, some eggs, shredded wheat, or weetabix. Nothing like, coco pops, sugar puffs, or any of that sugary crap. And no, you CANNOT have a coffee, it's a short sugar rush. And eventually, you'll feel like crap. Your gonna leave the cigarette packet at home. Your gonna get into work early.
Your goin to work at a decent pace. Your going to complete ALL of your work. And your going to feel good. So now, your going to treat yourself. And your going to go out with friends. Your confidence is going to shine. Your gonna feel good about life. Nothing can stop you, you can do anything, with your focused mind, and your ship-shape body.
Your going to go to a bar. And when, not if, when you see that cute girl there, eyeing you up, your gonna walk over to her. And your gonna talk, your gonna tease, your gonna pull. If it's her, or her number, your gonna get something from it.
And your going to change, slowly and surely, your life's gonna improve, your going to conquer all the things you were ever afraid to do.
Your going to do what 99% of the world CANT. Your going to put your mind's daydreams, wishes, to ACTION. And your going to live to achieve everything you ever wanted.

Me, I'm going to live. Tomorrow, I have school(college). I'm going to get on my bike, get into school, smiling. Why? 'Cos I'm going to do it. It? everything, anything. Anything I want. As soon as the thought of doing something fun, exciting, crazy comes into my mind, it's gonna be out there. In the reality.
And I'm, going to have fun. I'm going to have fire in my eyes(not literally:rolleyes: ) and women are going to notice. And they're going to wonder. What happened to him? I'll just smile, wink, and carry on. 'Cos I know, this is my life. My new life. The life where I, ONLY ME, decide what I do, where I go, what I wear, who I fancy, what I watch.

This is MY life. Can you say the same?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Amen! Within all that...sophistication shines out...A sophisticated modern man who is free, sharp, on-edge with options in his life.

Silver - nice post, a brief reminder that everyday is a new spankin' day : )


'To have but not to hold'
 

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That's a Don Juan way of living. Good job ;)
 

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Haha man thanks for that inspiration, I actually set up all my weeks goals last night. I seperate them into health, happiness and financial.

Anyone else do something like this or similar?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My problem is always that the first day of the rest of my life always starts TOMORROW...or some other indefinite date in the future.

I would have gone to bed early tonight to do all that good stuff tomorrow, but here it is 3:30 in the morning and I can't seem to sleep for the life of me...

Great stuff though man... I will definitely stop procrastinating TOMORROW! :D
 
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Amen brother... Amen

reading that ... felt like a fresh breath of air

I too will be going to class tomorrow....

"so what's coming to you tony? The world... chico"
-Scarface
 

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Nice post SilverS!
Killer Six Pac said:
Haha man thanks for that inspiration, I actually set up all my weeks goals last night. I seperate them into health, happiness and financial.

Anyone else do something like this or similar?
Yes I have goals for the day even for things like do the shopping, smile to somebody etc etc. I'm setting my long term goals too.
MooseGod said:
My problem is always that the first day of the rest of my life always starts TOMORROW...or some other indefinite date in the future.

I would have gone to bed early tonight to do all that good stuff tomorrow, but here it is 3:30 in the morning and I can't seem to sleep for the life of me...

Great stuff though man... I will definitely stop procrastinating TOMORROW!
Goals help procastinating. When you write something down it helps focus the mind and you'll find yourself actually wanting to complete the goals. When a goal is complete no matter how small look back at it and feel good about it.
 

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Killer Six Pac said:
Haha man thanks for that inspiration, I actually set up all my weeks goals last night. I seperate them into health, happiness and financial.

Anyone else do something like this or similar?
Yes, I actually made a thread on this..It's a small template, have a look..Self-Improvement Template
 
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