DJ Girevik
Senior Don Juan
I have been seeing more of these fools nowadays than I think I EVER have on the DJ boards. Nowadays, the only trends I am seeing here 3/4 of the threads asking for the OK in doing this or that. Is it OK to be mad, is it OK to call after 1 day, is this OK, is that OK?
What is the difference between the traditional AFC and the AFWDJ (average frustrated wannabe don juan)? I mean, the AFC tends to seek approval from other females before he does what he does. The AFWDJ does the EXACT SAME THING, replacing "females" with "people on sosuave". This is crazy, budding DJ's are forgetting how to BE A MAN.
Almost nobody here is willing to take any risks anymore. That is why all the "please approve this or that" posts. Just go out and do what you don't know what you should do or not, and then tell us the results. Quit asking for so much approval. It's sick and doesn't make you a DJ. It makes you an AFC all over again, except with displaced necessity for approval. A spineless AFC tends to "latch on" to a woman, because he has no spine of his own to give him his form. A spineless AFWDJ is latching on to this message board, because he has no spine of his own to give him his form.
The point of the DJ boards isn't to latch onto the DJ boards, it's to GROW A SPINE OF YOUR OWN. Be a unique individual with your own personality traits, yet HAVE A SPINE. The "MUST READ" threads in the DJ bible are for growing a spine. All the rest of the boards are simply ways to change your failure to success rate a bit WHEN YOU ALREADY HAVE A SPINE. You're going to have to test things out on your own, and only by doing that will you know what works for you. As easy as it is to be a spineless leech sucking information out of the boards, it's actually APPLYING what you know that seperates the DJ's from the AFWDJ.
So get off the computer, get into the real world, try new things, even when doubting, find what works and what does not ON YOUR OWN because no amount of approval for your questions from the DJ community will be able to tell you the real truth, and develop your personality, and GROW YOUR VERY OWN SPINE. A spineless life is really much, much less fulfilling than a life with a spine.
What is the difference between the traditional AFC and the AFWDJ (average frustrated wannabe don juan)? I mean, the AFC tends to seek approval from other females before he does what he does. The AFWDJ does the EXACT SAME THING, replacing "females" with "people on sosuave". This is crazy, budding DJ's are forgetting how to BE A MAN.
Almost nobody here is willing to take any risks anymore. That is why all the "please approve this or that" posts. Just go out and do what you don't know what you should do or not, and then tell us the results. Quit asking for so much approval. It's sick and doesn't make you a DJ. It makes you an AFC all over again, except with displaced necessity for approval. A spineless AFC tends to "latch on" to a woman, because he has no spine of his own to give him his form. A spineless AFWDJ is latching on to this message board, because he has no spine of his own to give him his form.
The point of the DJ boards isn't to latch onto the DJ boards, it's to GROW A SPINE OF YOUR OWN. Be a unique individual with your own personality traits, yet HAVE A SPINE. The "MUST READ" threads in the DJ bible are for growing a spine. All the rest of the boards are simply ways to change your failure to success rate a bit WHEN YOU ALREADY HAVE A SPINE. You're going to have to test things out on your own, and only by doing that will you know what works for you. As easy as it is to be a spineless leech sucking information out of the boards, it's actually APPLYING what you know that seperates the DJ's from the AFWDJ.
So get off the computer, get into the real world, try new things, even when doubting, find what works and what does not ON YOUR OWN because no amount of approval for your questions from the DJ community will be able to tell you the real truth, and develop your personality, and GROW YOUR VERY OWN SPINE. A spineless life is really much, much less fulfilling than a life with a spine.
