check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
the DJ bible tells us we are the alpha male we do what we want, we should not be a nice guy. Yet it seems like women want a nice guy, or so they say.
MY freinds ex dumped him after a very short relationship because she said he had no respect for her and was not nice.
I say to her, well if you do not like him because of this, you must hate me.
See i am always teasing this girl, she does often get upset about what i sya and has even said to me in the oast that i do not know how to treat girls.
but what is her reply to me saying she must hate me?
"no i dont, you have a lot of respect for me, a lot more then most guys do"
me, respect her? no way i was acting like a jerk half the time! well much more then i was a nice guy at least!
i asked her why it is she tihnks i have respect for her.
"well you listen to me and ask me stuff"
well this does not sound like a nice guy, just a good conversatinalist, see when girls say nice guy, they do not necciserly mean a push over, just osme one they can talk to!
oh and also some one that wont boss them around because being the alpha male is about making a decision but being a don juan is also about thinking of her aswell as you, you make the decisions but its not just what you want to do, you have to listen to what she wants to do and do what she wants to do aswell.
so remember, do not describe yourself as a nice guy but if a girl refers to liking a nice guy she does not mean a nice guy as we know them, she means a guy that listens to her and cares for her, and thinks of her instead of being selfish.
MY freinds ex dumped him after a very short relationship because she said he had no respect for her and was not nice.
I say to her, well if you do not like him because of this, you must hate me.
See i am always teasing this girl, she does often get upset about what i sya and has even said to me in the oast that i do not know how to treat girls.
but what is her reply to me saying she must hate me?
"no i dont, you have a lot of respect for me, a lot more then most guys do"
me, respect her? no way i was acting like a jerk half the time! well much more then i was a nice guy at least!
i asked her why it is she tihnks i have respect for her.
"well you listen to me and ask me stuff"
well this does not sound like a nice guy, just a good conversatinalist, see when girls say nice guy, they do not necciserly mean a push over, just osme one they can talk to!
oh and also some one that wont boss them around because being the alpha male is about making a decision but being a don juan is also about thinking of her aswell as you, you make the decisions but its not just what you want to do, you have to listen to what she wants to do and do what she wants to do aswell.
so remember, do not describe yourself as a nice guy but if a girl refers to liking a nice guy she does not mean a nice guy as we know them, she means a guy that listens to her and cares for her, and thinks of her instead of being selfish.
