You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
todays_news said:uh oh, this is definitely not good.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I assure you, this 'community' will remain underground long after this movie is released. I feel like its underground because so many guys are uncomfortable talking about this ****.todays_news said:I dunno why I dont like the idea... for me I see those techniques, this sites content etc. as something personal to me. Nobody else I know has read the book, or reads this website. It just seems odd to me to have it publicised!
I know people will say I'm wrong or disagree but I think the PUA community is still tilted towards an underground type of culture, and the idea of everyone knowing about it when/ if the film gets released seems to ruin it in a way for me.