LookTowardsTheFuture
Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 7, 2008
- Messages
- 11
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I have read the Dj Bible. It is a great resource. I am grateful for it, and as a newbie looking into this years ago, it opened up my eyes. I learned what it was to be challenging, a mystery, willing to walk away and an overall great DJ. But, there was only focus on ACTIONS, but little was spoke about the importance SPEECH.
Pook said testosterone make us do things; ACTION things. Anti-Dump suggested a willingness to walk away at any time. Both, of which are character traits of true Don Juans. But, both of these are never suggested verbally.
I am no fan of SS, NLP or anything like that. But, I want to emphasize the importance of not only comitting to PHYSICALLY walking away, but suggesting it through stories as well. This is important.
I have found in my relationships, when I showed that I was wiling to walk away (ie: physically up and leave), I got her wanting me back. But, when I suggested it through conversation, not only did she want me back, but she consistently tried to PROVE to me her HIGH INTEREST.
Actions create a lot of mystery. A woman never knows where you are at. But, so much mystery leads a woman to become paralyzed and without confidence to do anything. She does not know what makes you happy anymore. So, take the foot off the accelerator of Mystery, and a little bit on telling her about what you like a woman to be like through stories. But, it should still be 80% talking about her, and 20% talking about you. Otherwise, ACTIONS!
LTTF
Pook said testosterone make us do things; ACTION things. Anti-Dump suggested a willingness to walk away at any time. Both, of which are character traits of true Don Juans. But, both of these are never suggested verbally.
I am no fan of SS, NLP or anything like that. But, I want to emphasize the importance of not only comitting to PHYSICALLY walking away, but suggesting it through stories as well. This is important.
I have found in my relationships, when I showed that I was wiling to walk away (ie: physically up and leave), I got her wanting me back. But, when I suggested it through conversation, not only did she want me back, but she consistently tried to PROVE to me her HIGH INTEREST.
Actions create a lot of mystery. A woman never knows where you are at. But, so much mystery leads a woman to become paralyzed and without confidence to do anything. She does not know what makes you happy anymore. So, take the foot off the accelerator of Mystery, and a little bit on telling her about what you like a woman to be like through stories. But, it should still be 80% talking about her, and 20% talking about you. Otherwise, ACTIONS!
LTTF