"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A little advice would be great...

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Cherokee

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I've been around these forums a bit, but this is my first post.
Now me and my ex who have been on and off for like nearly 4 years have hit another road block. I've been a DJ this time round though, perhaps slipping up a few times here and there. Basically shes stressed because of her final degree exams, she wants me to live closer as we have a ldr, but at the same time, she doesn't think she can take it after we go travelling. So wants to be free "rather than having to worry about when she'll next see me". I'm pretty sure in woman tongue than means "**** a load of other guys". But on the other hand shes been in tears and sent me loads of emails saying how she loves me n stuff, obviously I've tried to steer away from AFC and just answer to the point, no mushy ****. Other than "go pork some hoes" anyone got any ideas how to sort this out. Some guys get their girls following them around the world... how?
thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Without knowing more about your history with this woman, I suggest that you agree with her and let her go wherever she wants to go..Why ? because this is a sh1t test of some kind and the way to handle faked up dramatics is to distance yourself from her 'hook'.
A lot of guys will jump forward at this test and try to convince her that she belongs with you, and you and she are so good together...yadda..blah.
All that does is give her the power and control over you that she is seeking.
The way to "pass" sh1t tests is to dismantle them by not playing.
 
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I was thinking it was a sh!t test, ffs. Well we got together 3 1/2 years ago, after a year I dumped her cos I wanted to play the field in uni, then like 4 months later we got back together and to be fair i was an afc, then she dumped me and through that period i found this, and got her back under my power. Thing is, this time I played is all smooth, so I assume her feelings are elsewhere. As you said, dismantle the test right. Its weird this time aswell cos she doesnt want space from me, she keeps contacting me n stuff.
 
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