"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A lack of cold-approaching doesn't measure a guys confidence level

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Peterpack

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you know what really helps ? Being out with a Wing who encourages you to approach (and vice versa) and you both see every approach attempt as a win regardless of what happens.

Rejection is better than Regret
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I agree, I'd also like to add that what helps for me is "warming up". That is making conversations or small talk with people who are strangers (while ordering food, waiting in line, etc). Because if you can't talk to regular people, you are sure as hell are going to find it a lot harder talk to a hot girl that you don't even know. Well for me at least, who is naturally introverted.

I don't think extroverts have this problem though, it comes naturally. My best friend is a hyper-extrovert who talks to every stranger imaginable. He is also the best cold approacher I know, he gets a lot of women cold approaching.
 
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