"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A great workout is....very interesting !!

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Guys who do not workout regularly, i honestly cant tell you how important it is. Just writing this after some jogging and pushups, after a week or so...

People talk about how being muscular is attractive to girls, about body fat percentage, six packs, biceps, triceps, broad shoulders, chest....stuff like that. But i have seen rarely anyone talk about how a good workout helps you a lot mentally.

The days when you're feeling down, where you're facing job stress, the girl you want is not picking up your call, you're eating crappy food....just try going for a workout. Whatever you like. It can be gyming, cycling, sprinting, jogging, swimming, any type of workout you enjoy doing. Trust me it opens up your body and especially your mind like nothing else. You feel ready to face the worldly crap, and if you continue doing it everyday, you feel so much centered in your body and mind, it cannot be described.

People talk about abundance mentality, and I don't know the exact definition of it. It's different for different people. Some say plate spinning is abundance mentality, some say being a millionaire is abundance mentality, some reach the stage of abundance mentality by meditating everyday (which is another thing i would highly recommend).

For me, presently, abundance mentality is something different. My mindset might change later, who knows. But right now for me, abundance mentality is having the physical and mental strength of facing whatever life throws at you. Not let what they throw at you affect you. Working out irrespective of whatever crap is happening in your life. Doing what needs to be done.

Working out isn't just my only passion. I even love creative writing. So, make sure you take out time to do whatever you enjoy doing. Exercising, creative writing, meditation - these are my 3 passions for now. Recognize whats yours, what makes you feel free. That is when you will reach real abundance mentality.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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